Stop Being Polite To Racists!


Would you invite a Klu Klux Klan member to your house for coffee?  Frankly, you’d think that many of us do, given our awkward responses to white people who say or do racists things, but some Black people would blow it off, smile, and have the attitude of ambivalence, rather than activism to confront the daily psychic violence many of us have to endure.

Currently, I’m in discussions in several places regarding the current state of media and opinion and honestly, I really do feel that there is a direct assault on our people by racists in various parts of the media.

Remember, global white supremacy is real.  It’s not an apparition.  There really are white people who hate Black people and want to destroy us “By Any Means Necessary.”  The latter words of this sentence were first uttered by the late Malcolm X and have taken on a life of their own over time.  We are under constant scrutiny by our enemy and psychological warfare is being directed at us daily.

My concern is how we respond.

Typically, our parents have raised us not to “raise hell” on the job–it’s your sustenance.  You have to pay the rent, bottom line.  People are going to talk–hurt feelings is not enough to risk being unemployed, forget what people say, and just keep your eyes ion the prize and handle your business.  Hey!  They talked about Jesus Christ too.  Suck it up.  Right?  So, what do many of us do, we smile, when back-handed insults are directed at us.  I’ve seen it up close and personal, even on the job.  I’ll never forget the times when I was asked by a white girl, “Do all Black People Know Each Other?”  And another more recently, dared make a statement that her biracial child, didn’t like dark-skinned Black people.  White Privilege allows white people to be racist, then play dumb, when they willfully know the intent of their behavior.

And yet, we smile.  Then pray for our enemies.  Lifting up their names to Jesus, but forgetting, that even in the Bible, God said, if we follow him, “Or enemies, would become his.”  Don’t many of us love to go to church, that means, the creator is waiting for us, to do what needs to be done.

Hatred was not invented by white men but has been used as a weapon by them more than most groups on this planet.

A while back, some white meme got into a confrontation with someone on the definition of niggard, meaning miserly or stingy.  However, arrogantly dismissing their initial comment: “I’m not racist. I have many black friends. But I hate niggers.”  Then furthering with: “there is a difference between a black person and a nigger. Thugs are niggers.”  Really?  As a the difference between a white intellectual vs a Redneck?

The audacity that some white people have to tell us what to think, how to act or react, yet, completely dismiss their own offensive behavior, is beyond enraging.  Just like why they shoot innocent Black people, then try to justify with: “They felt threatened.”

I’m sorry, but I’m not in the mood to be civil these days.  My eyes are wide open and I know what I see.

Damn being friendly to those who hate you–I say, it’s high time for Black people to stop being polite and GET REAL with these people.

Become the Negro they fear; and I promise you, they will back off.


The Kardashian Family Just Keeps Topping Themselves…


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You know, whenever white people try to infuse their arrogant protest of Black anger about racism, as us playing the race card, well, you can thank clueless white folks, like the KarTRASHians for validating our attitudes and protests.

For those of you who are wondering about the above picture, it comes from Khloe Kardashian’s Instagram account, in which the idiot thought this was a campy joke, and would be taken as such, by US, simply because she and her sister know a few Black celebrities or sleep with them–depending on which one you’re referring to. *Cough*

The reactions have been severe–even their fans protested, as the above link provides.  And rightly so.

How can people be so stupid?

As I looked at this photo, honestly, is this a group of white chicks giving some kind of validation to Black males for being allowed to tap their asses?

What was the point?

The Klu Klux Klan were responsible for almost 4000 deaths of innocent Black people.  They terrorized  African Americans and these dumb broads overlooked that fact in order to try and be clever?

 Maybe we need to put white women on the hot seat–as the white media, has the temerity to question why so many Black women are single, we an counter: why are so many white women chasing Black men for sex? Hit them right in the gut.  American history is filled with the tales of white males, and their hatred, and insecurity over their genitalia. Turn the tables…what’cha think?

White men violated Black women’s bodies for centuries, and I guess in a way, it’s touche’ to see white women so desperate for sex, they will go to these type of lengths.

We’ve been seeing many whites in the media taking pot shots at our community over the course of the Obama tenure as POTUS and I wonder if perhaps the Black community should stop being so reserved and let it all rip.  Tell these people what we really think about them.  I’m serious.

White Privilege is what motivated these pathetic women to do this.  Obviously, there is an arrogance in them that motivated their behavior and perhaps, we should look at the behavior of Black males too.  Dare I be coy, but there are white women who are so hungry for attention; when Black men give them any kind of recognition, they take it as some kind of signal, that they are more desired–after being abandoned by white males.

Perception is reality, but what is the real truth?

Somehow, the Black community keeps getting in the cross-hairs of insecure white women, self-hating Black men, and white men who can’t satisfy their women.

When the hell are we going to stand up and demand respect, and get this bacteria out of our communities and heads?

We must restore dignity to the people–and walk with our heads held high once again.

Dear White Chicks!

So sorry that when you come to this blog, you get the shock of your lives in not seeing yourselves admired, esteemed, emulated, or imitated.  This is not White America, dear  hearts.  Are you confused as to where you are?

You’ve entered the domain of a sharp thinking African American woman who is so high and mighty; if you looked at me too long, you’d need to ask me permission to breathe.  Yes, I highly value myself, and other Black women.  And I don’t have to qualify as to why, but if you’re curious, I’ll tell you bluntly: Black women are not your doormats, maids, psychiatrists, girlfriends, best friends or confidants.  WE ARE DESCENDANTS OF THE FIRST WOMAN–THE BLACK WOMAN WHOSE WOMB SPURNED ALL LIFE, THUS, WE ESTEEM NO OTHER WOMEN ABOVE US–WE ARE THE BEGINNING, AND WALK IN THAT KNOWLEDGE EVERY SINGLE DAY.

That’s why you fear us.

We still walk with dignity, even though we have to deal with inequality and prejudice, and oh! Don’t let me forget, feminism too.  We walk with the power of the universe inside of us and the most intelligent of us, allow it to be our guide.  And you just can’t figure out where we get all of that cool.  Yes, we have to dodge these bullets every single day, but still be wives, mothers, teachers, activists, inspiration, and spiritual representatives to our families, still smiling, although tired, but having the audacity to rock Prada while being tested by the media, society, and racists, who are impassioned in telling us subliminally that we don’t matter.


Like hell.

You see, your image…was constructed in the sick mind of white males, who lied to you and hypnotized you in believing that you were the feminine goddess to be marketed to the world.  But what most of you are   is an emotional vulnerable mess, who don’t have a clue of what real womanhood is beyond boob jobs, lip injections, butt implants, facial cosmetic surgery, and hyper-sexualized imagery.  Tragically born with pale skin, you spend countless time, energy, and money–even risking your lives to be brown–like us.  You’re a piece of fiction, and the Black woman is the representative of what you can’t be: She’s strong on her own, and even moreso with the Black man.  The features you want and have to pay for,  are those of the Black woman: full lips, hips, naturally voluptuous, and ageless, toned skin, in all the colors of gold, tan, brown, bronze, copper, as well as about 30 other color spectrums of the rainbow.

The media tells you that you’re special, but those who’ve been around you, particularly Black women, know you’re a pathetic mess.  You cry over the dumbest shit.  You’re always scared and insecure.  You are vindictive, spite-filled and deceitful. Many of you seem to think it’s perfectly natural to seduce young teenage boys (recent news), even while teaching in the classroom.  You’re nasty, as in disgusting, not washing your hands after using the bathroom (WE SEE YOU), and most obvious: you don’t know how to make white men respect you or stay interested in you after you hit 30.

To us, you’re over-hyped fantasia.  No substance.  Pure apparition.

Just by chance, I Googled the word Bimbo, and guess what, every single time, a white chick was depicted in various poses.  Imagine that.  Then, something told me to put the word, tramp in the search box.  Oh, my…the same thing happened.  White chicks all over the place.  Then I Googled the word, witch.  Lord!  White women pictured.  Is there something about witches that make you feel wholesome?  Guess that’s why so many of you love Halloween: you can take off the L’Oreal and become your natural selves.

Oh, sure, there are good white women, but what pisses Black women off, the bad ones seem to get the benefit of the doubt along with the Joan of Arcs.

We don’t get that consideration.  We’re always angry, unloved, something to be feared or condescended to.  If you listen to the hype behind the movie, The Help, you’d think all Black women saw themselves as nothing more than housemaids for lazy white bitches who couldn’t tell you the difference between a bottle of dish soap or tide.  Everything that the media depicts of Black women is negative. We’re even hated when we achieve–as most of us do, while working two jobs, and still getting the degree, the job, the promotion, and sometimes when we’re alone.

When a women as accomplished and intelligent as Michelle Obama, gets picked apart, for of all things, wanting to go abroad and take her girls along for the tour; “How dare she do such a thing.”  The disparity of how Black women and white women have been depicted in the media; white women have been afforded the advantage simply based on her proximity to the white male who controls the media.

Basically, the difference in Black women and white women is simple: MARKETING.

You will probably never see a positive thing about white women on my blog. Not because I can’t say anything nice–I WON’T.  Yes!  I’m prejudiced, discriminatory, biased, and quite unapologetically, uncompromising in my views.  This is not racism.  It’s constructive empowerment for those who have been victimized too often by global white supremacy, either subliminally or directly.  It’s our spot to edify our own values, culture, beauty, uniqueness, creativity, intelligence, and point of view.

Black women are getting hatred shoved in their faces, even when we are no threat to anyone.  We are constantly being criticized, even when we deserve to be praised.

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m just telling the truth.

Because most of the time, we don’t have the luxury of having our version of the story being told.

White Privilege, like the American Express card,  affords white women access to things that they don’t deserve.

But here on this blog, your credit has been denied.

Chris Brown’s X Album: Listening Party…



Haven’t done this in a while, but I’m listening to Chris Brown’s new album, X on my Spotify player.  Not bad.

I’m happy that Chris is continuing his music career.  He’s a talented young man and has a bright future–if he would just make some personal changes, and get rid of the bad people around him, he could become a great artist.

If you haven’t checked it out, take a listen and tell me what you think…


The Republicans Will Now Control The Senate…Now What?

Just got back from Twitter and posting in my group, Pandora’s Box on facebook, regarding the recent wins of many Republican candidates.  We are officially a red nation.

Last week, everyone was posting on social media to Black people to get out and vote.  Many felt that the Democrats just have not been doing enough to get this country and economy back on track and would suffer during the mid-term elections.  Well, that’s proven to be true.

This win means that not only will the Republicans control the Senate, but will get total control of the Congress.  This is a punishing blow to President Barack Obama.  Obama’s crisis filled tenure as this nation’s first AA POTUS, made him unwelcome by many Democratic candidates–I live in Georgia…and if I hear “Obamacare” one more time, I’m going to scream bloody murder!

What does this mean for Black people?  Many areas where we live are hurting.

Bill O’Reilly got into some hot water recently for making statements to Tavis Smiley on his O’Reilly Factor program:

‘On Thursday’s edition of “The O’Reilly Factor,” Bill O’Reilly got into some hot water with his guest, PBS radio host Tavis Smiley.

On the topic of white Republicans’ relationship with black Americans, O’Reilly said, “I think they’re more intimidated than uncaring. I think they’re afraid… I think they’re afraid of, uh, black people, yeah.”

“Why? Are black folks scary?” responded Smiley, clearly uncomfortable.

“No, no, the white Republican power structure is afraid of black Americans. They don’t know how to treat them; they don’t know how to speak to them… They don’t know anything about the culture, and they don’t want to be called a racist bigot, so they stay away,” O’Reilly said. “That’s just my opinion.”’

‘When Smiley asked why Republicans wouldn’t want to engage more fully with black Americans to understand their points of view, O’Reilly responded bluntly: “Because they feel it’s not worth the trouble, the few votes they might siphon off, to get involved with it. That’s how they feel. I know that for a fact.”’

This is very blunt, but I feel it’s also an uncomfortable truth about the Republicans–they refuse to interact with Black people.

However, Mia Love, daughter of Haitian immigrants, will be the first African American Republican congresswoman to win for the state of Utah.  And  Will Hurd for the state of Texas–another congressman.

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Republicans vow to work more with Obama, but is that an empty promise?


7 Things I Can Do That My Black Son Can’t…


Yesterday, this was brought to my attention, and I wanted to bring it to the blog because of the impact it has had in social media.

All over the net, many Black people commented on the piece, but I’d like to post a comment that was made from one of the moderators on

Her name is “Side-eye” Sek.  The piece was posted on the site, and the following is how Sek responded to one of the commentators who didn’t seem to understand White Privilege:


“Whites have the “privilege”, when they’ve committed a crime (regardless of how heinous), of being arrested, placed in handcuffs, and taken down to the station….without being tased, beaten, or shot to death….while black men in just about every major city in this country, ARE tased, beaten, or shot to death for the most MINOR infractions.  White men have raped, murdered, slaughtered entire families, raped and murdered children and babies….and were routinely arrested, arraigned, stood trial, and were sentenced to whatever time dictated under the law.  Black folks….CITIZENS of this country who FOUGHT for the RIGHT to have a “better” life….were attacked by home grown WHITE terrorists who terrorized, raped, lynched, gunned down Black folks for merely attempting to register to vote, had dogs sicc’d on them, knocked down by the blast of fire hoses, bombed their churches and killed CHILDREN….had so much “privilege”, they were allowed by juries of their peers to walk away unscathed.  Eric Garner did not have the “privilege” of getting a “warning” for selling loose cigarettes…he was killed because of it.  Mike Brown didn’t warrant a simple take down and arrest for stealing a box of cigars (last time I checked, death was not the penalty for stealing cigars), he was choked to death (an ILLEGAL CHOKE HOLD) for his crime.  The citizens of Ferguson did not have the “privilege” of the right to protest without being shot at and abused.  The Black man who was shot four times (and survived) was not afforded the “privilege” of, upon the request of the officer who shot him, to merely reach into his car and get his drivers’ license.  A white man would not have been gunned down under the assumption that he was reaching for a gun.  A Black woman who is a professor (educated and probably lives very well) was not afforded the privilege of a “warning” for “jaywalking”, she was roughed up and thrown to the ground, humiliated because her dress was up for all the world to see her ass.  The homeless woman who was pummeled by the fist of a cop didn’t have the “privilege” of being calmed down and if she didn’t, put in the cop car, taken down to the station, and attempts be made to locate her family.  A white woman would not have been treated the same way, TRUST.  A man who did nothing but sit and wait for for school to let out so he could pick up his children was tased by cops, because supposedly he was not “allowed” to sit in the area he was in, which turned out to not be true.  Do you think the same would have happened to a white man waiting for his children?  Of course not.  Black man has a car accident, is badly injured, seeks help and is gunned down by cops….who were supposed to HELP him, not KILL him, and to add to the indignity, he was handcuffed even though he was dead.  That would never have happened to a white man.  Old man reaching into his car to get a pack of smokes he bought for his elderly mother, shot by cops.  He had no idea why they shot him.

Trayvon didn’t have the “privilege” of walking going home safe after buying some skittles and iced tea to watch a basketball game.  A young white man wouldn’t have even been stopped.

Jordan Davis didn’t have the “privilege” of playing his music loud in his ride.  He was shot to death by a cracka because of it.  A young white man playing loud rock or country music would have gotten to his destination, unscathed.  Renisha McBride did not have the “privilege” of having had too much to drink and knocking on a door seeking help.  She was shot in the head by a white man who feigned fear, but it later came out that he wasn’t scared, that’s what landed his ass in prison.  A white woman in the same situation would not only NOT have been shot, BUT would probably either have been invited into the man’s home, OR he would have called 911 and/or EMS and sat with her on his porch and held her there until they arrived.

The two individuals who shopped at Barneys did not have the “privilege” of shopping in peace, they were accused of stealing and law enforcement was called on them.  This would not have happened to two white folks who were shopping and spending their money.

You talk about Black folks focusing on making their lives “better”.  Don’t know if you got the memo, but man of us have “good lives”, we work, we raise children, we have a decent place to live, some have spouses or significant others, some have degrees, we live, laugh and love like everyone else.  You are placing the burden of the bullshit that is done to our folks on our backs and that is not only unfair, it is foul.  What next Level, the old speech about how if only Black men would pull up their pants, things would get “better” for them?  Black folks have been “focused” on making their lives “better” since the end of slavery.  Hung from the end of ropes for it.  Homes, businesses and churches burned down for it.  Walked miles and miles to work if there was no room in the carpools for them.  Put theirs and their children’s lives on the line for it.  All for the most simple, basic rights that SHOULD HAVE BEEN AFFORDED from jump, in lieu of so many having to pay with their lives for it.  And you have the NERVE to sit and talk about us just going on and “bettering” our lives and to hell with what whites are doing?  Well Level, whites are exercising their “white privilege” to put on uniforms and KILL US, in the name of the law.  I just read that in Atlanta, 40,000 voter registrations that have gone missing from the public database.  Do you think that was an “accident”, Level?  Or do you think it was done on purpose so that these folks’ (majority Black I’m sure) vote won’t count?   Are you aware of the bullshit going on with the Voter Right’s Act?  The bullshit tactics being used to try to prevent Black folks from exercising their right to vote?

So, Black folks are just supposed to “live their lives and make them “better” (When many of our lives are “better”) and dismiss what is going on and being done to Black folks….by white folks?  Ignore the rampant and blatant violation of basic human and civil rights that occur every day in this country?

As for the WHITE IDIOT who is the subject of the original post, I have no tears for him….a man who laid with and pumped up a black woman with not one, but two of his seeds….and wished his son would stay “White” while the boy turns browner before his eyes?

You annoy me with your “Peter Pan-esque, “Pollyana-ish mannerisms.

“White Privilege” is dangerous and sometimes DEADLY to Black folks.

We should ALL be afforded the “privilege” of HUMAN PRIVILEGE, Level.  As “better” as many of our lives are, they are also STRESSFUL because of all the “EXTRA” we have to deal with.  We have to worry and stress about shit that WHITES don’t, like their sons and daughters being slaughtered by the very folks who are supposed to serve and protect them.  And when THEIR kids act a damn fool or engage in foolishness and fuckery, they are afforded the “privilege” of getting a phone call from law enforcement regarding their kid, and picking them from the police station, in lieu of having to identify their bodies in a morgue or WORSE….having their dead bodies lie in the hot sun for four hours.  It is sad that WE don’t have that “privilege”, regardless of how “better” our lives are.

Wake up man, seriously.”

She summed it up perfectly and as I told her, I would post it on the blog.

All I can say is BRAVO!!!

White Women Love to Holler Rape!


Currently, there’s a story about comedian Bill Cosby committing rape against a 47 year old white woman by the name of Hannibal Burress. She claims he raped her in 1985 when he gave her private acting lessons.

Apparently, Bill Cosby has been accused of rape by 13 women, but no charges has ever been brought against him.

Reading the story, I just became irritated.  First of all, who is she? Why is she coming out after all of these years?  And what is her real intent?  One has to ask these questions when white women are involved, because historically, many Black men have been lynched, based on these type off allegations, whether they be true or false.  White women are poison to Black males.


Look at all of those white women in the photo…

As an African American woman, I have to address this, mainly, because it seems like an easy go-to for many white women who get spurned by Black men. Ask Kobe.  They know that accusing a Black man of rape is the ultimate payback.

There are many Black men sitting in prison accused of rape by white women.  How many are true?  And what about the Black men today who have been killed because of this type of behavior in white women who get some type of racial high in using rape as the ultimate scheme to threaten Black men who spurn their advances, or, those who are afraid of being caught doing something that will bring them shame, thus, accusing a Black man of rape is a the natural go-to.  But who’s life is being impacted?

This is not a game.  Playing with people’s lives is evil.

And yet, Black men still foolishly think white woman are their allies.

Ms. Burress claims she wants to educate people about the signs of abuse.

And yet, I ponder, WHY NOW?