The Audacity of White Privilege!

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On Saturday, March 10, 2012.  I sat in my company break room…just chilling out.  I wasn’t really hungry.  I had been sick for the past week, so I just settled for a cheap frozen meal and watched CNN news.  About 10 minutes after sitting down to eat; a coworker (who shall remain nameless) came into the break room.  She’s a young white girl (trailer trash) who is living with a Black guy and has 2 children with him.  Another young coworker; a young college student who happens to be Black, began a conversation with the white girl.  Somewhere during my attention to the news; my focus was averted by  the white girl when she made a comment to the Black girl, as she stepped out to go to get her lunch:  the white girl, for some unknown reason, chose to reveal to the young Black girl,  that one of her babies didn’t like dark-skinned Black people.  The Black girl was dark-skinned as well.  I just glared at her.  She went on…and on…about how if her baby saw a dark-skinned Black person, he would cry and scream. OMG!  Was this really happening?  This was an encounter indeed.  There were 5 Black people in this section of the company break room.  3 Black males and I, and the other young Black woman.

First of all, as I stared at this girl; I had to really take a 60 second break and check myself before I jumped up and slapped the hell out of her.  When I composed myself internally, it was at this time that I confronted her.  I demanded to know what in the hell gave her the audacity to make such a statement–with such impunity, in a room filled with Black people?  I then told her that her comments were out of line.  The racial issues in America right now as well as in the past should have served as a meter stick as what to say and not to say to people, particularly if one was not educated about such perimeters.  She tried to defend herself–of course.  Her attempts at trying to justify what she said were absolutely comical–but no one was laughing.  During the course of this exchange, she had the nerve to say that “all of her friends are Black” and that her baby would not have a problem with me (I’m not dark-skinned).  Oh, how magnanimous of you to say this to me.  Sort of like putting more sh*t on top of bullsh*t, ya think?

What struck me the most was the ignorance in this young woman.  She really didn’t get it.

This would have been very hurtful even if a Black person had said this, but the fact that it was coming out of the mouth of a white chick was absolutely incendiary.  She had no fear of any kind in making the statement, which led me to conclude that she most definitely felt as though she would not be challenged.

This is one of the reasons why many African Americans detest white women and interracial unions in general.  What are these women passing on to their offspring?  To have a child that harbors such a bias can only be attributed to certain behaviors, cultural cues and bigotry being perceived by one or both parents.

During slavery, skin color was used as a Divide and Conquer strategy as a way to keep the slaves separated, as not to become a threat to their white slave masters.  This is a fact of history.

What really galled me the most is that not one of the Blacks in that break room spoke up–even though this white girl was disrespecting not only Black people; she had no sense of shame in what she said and thought nothing of their feelings.

Yes, you can still be in an interracial relationship and still be a racist.

I’m living in Georgia.  And I can say that one of the things that I despise about this place is how Black people, still, in 2012, are so afraid of white folks, to the degree, that they would sit in silence as some ignorant piece of white trash basically dumps crap on them.  It’s one of the reasons whites in the south think they can say anything they want to or about Black people and not fear retribution.  The sad reality here is that Black people who allow this still must harbor deep intrinsic feelings of inferiority and have low self-worth.

I was raised in Chicago, IL.  I have respect for myself, and no one.  And I do mean NO ONE is going to make racist or ignorant statement as this woman did and walk away.  No way!  It is my responsibility as well as other Black people to check racism when it is being demonstrated either directly or indirectly.

Honestly, I could have gotten this woman terminated, but you know what; I really don’t want to do that.  The greatest punishment she can receive is to have to look me in the face every single day…knowing that she’s been exposed.

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8 comments on “The Audacity of White Privilege!

  1. You did the right thing. Your ancestors layed down for you so you was not afraid to stand up for them. Your truly eye catching. I love your blog because for one, you don’t sugar coat. 2 you don’t say “not all white people” or “I don’t hate white people” or other things to lessen the pressure and make others comfortable. I like when we just speak out without hesitation. Your post exemplifies why we need to create our own jobs and own our stuff. We wouldn’t have these problems if we were in our own spaces and setting our own rules. They stole wealth from us and passed it down to their kids. Dr. Claud Anderson and Marcus Garvey over stood the importance of group economics. I would like to see us working together, net working together, and eating together. I’m not saying we all have to be friends but at least like get our priorities together.

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    • Truthangel07 says:

      Yes. I totally agree. We have got to break this yoke between US and THEM. We are not like them and being in relationships with sick people makes us all infected. I tell it like it is because you can’t change what you don’t acknowledge. This is one of the reasons I don’t allow white people on my blog. I will not esteem them in any way.

      And…THANK YOU for supporting this bog. 🙂

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  2. the alchemist says:

    The three black “men” didn’t check her. Black men NEVER check white women’s racism, especially if she is sleeping with a black man. They ONLY believe in fighting white men’s racism against black MEN.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      No. Not at all. There is a very serious problem with many Black people, particularly Black males and it’s called COWARDICE. I’ll check a white person in a heartbeat–no matter where it was. When I got through with that chick; she was scared to death to even face me. I don’t play–NOT AT ALL.

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  3. Adeen says:

    I like this post. I hope I am not kicked off this blog for some of my comments. I am very frustrated and tired of White people because I live around them and they get on my nerves. Anyways racism is a system that gives White people privileges based on their skin color while Blacks are disadvantaged. I am sick of their cries of ”reverse racism” when we don’t have the power to oppress.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Whites in this world are diminishing in numbers. They are dying as a race and I’m enjoying watching them implode. They deserve all the Karma coming to them.

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      • Adeen says:

        I know right. They are 8% worldwide and shrinking in population due to low birth rates from fellow cave women and their White demon men are dating Asian women in high numbers. Honestly I thank God I am not an albino who can’t stand the sun, ages very badly and has lice infested hair.

        Don’t worry, you have another person here enjoying to see them implode, disappear and receive the karma that they deserve!

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      • truthangel07 says:

        I’ve noticed a few people seeming to be a little afraid to comment on the posts regarding the behavior of whites, but the truth is the truth and I will not stop speaking it–irrespective of who gets uncomfortable.

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