As I span various websites and chat communities, it is absolutely pathetic at the lack of Soul, solidarity, Black Pride, Education and Dignity that is present in many of the discussions.
Who are some of the posters that frequent these sites these days?
I’ve been an internet personality officially since 1999 and I just can’t recall such dribble, self-hatred, suspect conversations; all masking a dark intent: disparage true Blackness in order to build up phony images of what Black African Descended people should look like. Is there an agenda?
It is absolutely appalling to me that there is now a movement it seems amongst some who “call themselves African American” but who lack something innate within themselves that actually makes someone like myself, who grew up in a proud, predominantly Black middle class community, raise her eyebrows and wonder what is up.
The increase of interracial unions/marriages in Black America is not strengthening our community. What is being created is a race within a race–one pitted against the other. Why do I say that? When Carolyn Battle Cochrane created the documentary in 2010 entitled, I’m Biracial Not Black Damnit ; this fueled some deep debate as to the level of bigotry within those who are biracial against mono-racial Black people. Why would she be offended for being called Black? Her mother is white. Would she have been complimented more if someone had called her white? What was the point of this woman’s rant? Many African Americans were incensed and challenged her attitude as well as the loaded title of her documentary.
And what I find interesting is that it’s typically white women who just “DON’T GET IT”. They’re ambivalence is always fueled by historical ignorance. It’s not Black women who are responsible for making them feel good about being with a Black man. Nor is it our responsibility to teach their children about their heritage.
Today, if you look at the statistics for interracial marriage; white women and Black men have the highest divorce rate.
As a proud African American woman, I will tell you point blank that I am thankful to the most high God for making me who I am. I do not preface my statements about myself with… “I’m mixed. One of my maternal great grandmothers was half white; and the other was mixed with Cherokee. Why should I? Am I supposed to gain points for doing that? And with whom exactly? Anyone that has to go out of their way to tell you that they are mixed, is simply trying to subconsciously ingratiate themselves to whites.
Black people are really getting tired of this bullshit. It amazes me how much we, as a community, tolerates–to our own detriment sometimes. Why? This does not validate who I am nor does it honor my people.
The basic opinion that I have of biracials and unions between Black men/women with whites is that if these Black people don’t love themselves; that hatred will manifest itself in their offspring. Someone once told me that when you get to close to toxic waste, you will get contaminated. White people are poison and their blood is now mixed with many in our community. Their history is what it is…and I just can’t understand how or why there are some of us who feel they are not worthy unless they are validated and romanced by white folks.
If these people can’t stand what is looking at them in the mirror; don’t get mad at those of us who like the reflection that they see.
Bottom line: Black people in general do not see things the same way that whites do and it is my advice to whites that they need to get acquainted with the reality that their racism and hate, historically, and currently–although masked in various ways; is a subliminal offense that can not be erased or even forgiven simply by having children with clueless Black people who are psychologically impaired because of a sick desire within to be “loved” by the thing that represents PURE HATE that was acted out on Black people.
I’m tired of this bacteria in our community and I wish that I could put these self-hating mofos on an island and pray for a Tsunami.
You’re more than welcome to debate this issue…but it’s how I feel…and I’m not apologizing for what I said.