Why Would A Woman of Color Date/Marry a Racist?

Yesterday, while watching CNN, some friends of mine and I discussed the bizarre nature of a woman of color dating or marrying a racist.

The Donald Sterling controversy provoked this discussion and we all agreed that there is something extremely wrong and strange for a woman to be in a relationship with a man who hates what she is, but sleeps with her.

Yes!

I’m calling out the gold-digger V. Stiviano.  Stiviano was born Maria Vanessa Perez in October 1982 in Los Angeles, but successfully petitioned to change her name to V. Stiviano in 2010. There’s no explanation for what the name means, but her stated reason in the court filing was, “Born from a rape case and having yet been fully accepted because of my race.”  This in and of itself indicates some type of psychological issues that have yet to be resolved but what is very strange is for a woman this young to seek out the attention of an old 80 year old white man who hates Black people.  She also has a history of seeking out older men for money–GOLDDIGGER!

In March, Sterling’s wife, Rochelle, sued Stiviano, claiming she received more than $2.5 million in lavish gifts from the Clippers owner and they needed to be returned. A big piece of the suit involves a duplex Stiviano purchased in December for nearly $1.8 million with money that Rochelle Sterling claims Stiviano received from her husband. Stiviano’s name appears on the deed, and Rochelle Sterling is asking a judge to transfer the property to her and her husband.

All I can say is that it’s very strange.

This woman identified herself as being half Black and half Hispanic.

Some people, including myself are questioning this woman’s behavior.  What kind of mind does she have?  Does she have any self-respect? On the tape, she actually said that she wished she could change her skin color, responding to Donald Sterling’s ranting about posing with Black people in photos posted on Instagram.

No self-respecting Black woman would allow herself to be insulted this way nor would she tolerate her culture to be defamed as this.  Only a stupid one–and dare I claim such a woman as a sistah!

I certainly do not claim V. Stiviano or whomever she is, but she got herself the 15 minutes of fame she craved.

But the microscope has most definitely been turned on her as it should be.

 

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16 comments on “Why Would A Woman of Color Date/Marry a Racist?

  1. Tyrone says:

    The Ugly Truth!!!

    This issue is bigger than Donald Sterling. As a blackman, this is what i’ve observed over time. Non-Black Men have no fear of sexing blackwomen, but, don’t want their women mingling with blackmen. Then Again, all men behave in this way…Yes & No! Other men don’t pay a price for being with Sistas, Why? Other men have more power and economic means than we do, so, a lot of our women applaud this scenario. For us, it’s not the same. We get killed for daring to date whitewomen(american, spanish, arab, italian) just the same. Ironically, these same whitemen love black berries, but, hate blackmen. Why do brothas tolerate this obvious hypocrisy? Our hands are tied, we can complain all we want, a blackwoman can spread her legs for David Duke. Still can’t stop it from happening. The black female/white male combo is the real story. All or most of the wealth and power that is in the hands of whitemen was produced thru the blackwoman’s womb. Whitemen are students of history, they have long memories.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Tyrone, in my honest opinion, any Black man or woman who engages in sex with white men or women is spiritually lost and have little love or self respect for themselves–and certainly none for their people.

      Blacks who have open eyes and discerning spirits know how depraved white people are and I just can’t give any concessions to people who don’t know the history of white people on this planet–then have the audacity to create children with these beasts.

      It’s a sickness that is far deeper than either of us could possibly understand.

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  2. Lisa says:

    Thanks for the post!

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  3. Brothawolf says:

    Hey. My name’s Bro. James Wolf. I heard about you from Kushite Prince. It’s nice to meet you.

    This is mind boggling. But at the same time, it reeks of internalized racism when we date white racists. What white people have done to us was ingenious enough to make us hate ourselves and our people, sinister enough to make us destroy ourselves on autopilot and powerful enough to last for years. We have been programmed to hate ourselves, but love our oppressor unconditionally. Maybe ‘love’ is a strong word, but if we have people willing to sleep with racists, something is seriously wrong.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Hi, Brothawolf. And welcome! Any friend of Kushite is a friend of mine as well. He’s a good brotha…

      Anyway, I approve of your statements: “What white people have done to us was ingenious enough to make us hate ourselves and our people, sinister enough to make us destroy ourselves on autopilot and powerful enough to last for years. We have been programmed to hate ourselves, but love our oppressor unconditionally.” This is a perfect breakdown. I learned a new word some years ago: Meme. What is a meme? A meme is a mental virus. What is the purpose of a virus? To spread. Well, this virus is alive and well in the behavior of Black people. Our ancestors had so much inflicted on their psyche’s from white slave-masters and enduring so much hatred; it was internalized and passed on through behavior and speech to their offspring.

      Malcolm X stated the question beautifully in one of his speeches: Who Taught You to Hate Yourself? http://youtu.be/kboP3AWCTkA

      The answer is within the question, Brotha.

      Interesting isn’t it?

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  4. originalwoman13 says:

    @Truthangel
    Unfortunately, she is not the only woman of color that is dating racist white males. From what I hear from other black people this has been happening for years and years and years and it happens more than you think. Yesterday, I just happened to turn to the Doug Banks show and they were discussing the same subject. A black woman called in sayin she has a friend who is dating a married racist white man, but stay with him despite emotional and spiritual abuse JUST to keep on getting material possessions. I believe the caller said she knows other black women selling their soul (and ass). Where I live it is bad. This is another SERIOUS issue black people need to address as well.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      It’s all related to what I said: It’s the system of white supremacy!

      Many Black people have been brainwashed and frankly, these people need psychiatrists.

      There is something totally wrong with a people –THE FIRST PEOPLE–Us! Made in the image of God…to look in the mirror and say: I HATE YOU! Then cry to this force in the universe and give prayers for him to help them.

      Something is wrong with that picture.

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  5. “Some people, including myself are questioning this woman’s behavior. What kind of mind does she have? Does she have any self-respect? On the tape, she actually said that she wished she could change her skin color, responding to Donald Sterling’s ranting about posing with Black people in photos posted on Instagram.

    No self-respecting Black woman would allow herself to be insulted this way nor would she tolerate her culture to be defamed as this. Only a stupid one–and dare I claim such a woman as a sistah!”

    OUCH!!! Tell us how you really feel!lol

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  6. adeen says:

    Eew no self respecting Black or Latino woman would date a racist like that old, ugly Don Sterling! I know I wouldn’t. Plus I know I would never consider dating any man who looks down on me because I am Black. This woman must have some issues!

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