White Women Have Become “The New Black Mothers”…

This is an oxymoron…

Strange title? Yes it is. What do I mean? What’s behind the title?

On my blog this afternoon, a young gentlemen commented on one of my posts:  “Knowingly or unknowingly, sistas have been hoodwinked into believing that other women are equal to them, therefore, black womanhood is not a big deal. Meanwhile, Anglo women spend millions all over the globe to look like black women…botox for wrinkles, breast implants, butt implants, collagen shots, self-tanning, etc. Not to mention, they wanna have chocolate and caramel babies just like black women. Yet, some will say that black women are inferior, Really?

I started thinking about that ,and my response to this basically, is that our relationships in the Black community are so endangered; there is an attitude being projected to us, that we are not good enough for each other and it is better for a Black man to marry white trash than make a Black woman his wife.

Before Black women criticize Black men for marrying white women, I have to ask: What image are you projecting to your Black son? Do you have hair weave? Are you using skin lightener? What do you watch on television? Do you read Ebony or Essence? or Do you read Cosmopolitan and Vogue (Neither have Black women on the cover). What is in your home that is making your Black son think that having a white girl is better than having a Black one in his life? Are you projecting the European phenotype subliminally? Are you one of those Black women that goes crazy over biracial or light-skinned babies? What comments do you make around your child that gives him the attitude that “white is better?”

No. I’m not trying to put the sisters down, but seriously, if most Black children are raising children on their own, you are going to be scrutinized for your parenting skills when a certain behavior is being projected.

I respect Black women to the fullest. We are the backbone of our culture and race. However, there is something that must be looked at deeply within our culture.

A few weeks ago, Kanye West married a known tramp. All I could do was shake my head. Given the reputation of this woman, she was treated as though she was the prize of the century by yet another clueless Black man who actually doesn’t seem to realize that he put another white trick on a pedestal; smiled all the way down the aisle, with a grand piano smile on his face; the appalling factor for me, was the sad fact that his child was birthed from the womb of this woman who treats her vagina like a sewer.

And this brings up another point: Some of us raise our children to be the next greatest singer, NFL player or NBA star but the only people that seem to benefit from wealthy Black men, particularly entertainers, and sports heroes, are white women.  Many of these Black men are seen as an economic stimulus package; a Black brutha gets drafted, a white woman gets married.  And this arrogance and attitude is fueled by White Supremacy and White Privilege.

Frankly, the last time a Black woman was in some of these brothers homes was when they poured Aunt Jemima syrup over some pancakes.

When you look at the statistical data, Black men are marrying outside of their race more than any group.

Only 1 out of every 4 Black women are getting married, yet, the solution for this, is for Black women to marry outside?

We are in a mess.

What happened to Black is Beautiful?  Black love is sacred.

Black people love being everything other than themselves.

And if the title of this thread disturbs you, you better get the understanding that if we as a people don’t get it together, this is precisely what is going to become the reality, at the expense of Black women.

 

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132 comments on “White Women Have Become “The New Black Mothers”…

  1. The main woman on Earth giving birth to H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ kids is the devil-woman.

    The devil-women is Hellbent on benefiting from the fact, the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ men disowned the she-devil and gave the she-devil powerful servant position to the devil-women. The devil-men + the devil-women knows I created the devil-women womb for the seed of the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ men, therefore the devil-men brings the devil-women to the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ men to be seeded and then the devil-men consume the seed of G̲o̲d̲ out of the devil-women womb, which is a ancient 5,500 year-old sexually ritualistic G̲o̲d̲ procreation ceremony that only G̲o̲d̲, the devil-men + the devil-women still do to-date, as seen in reality, homemade interracial sex videos, interracial sex sites, movies, TV shows, etc.

    The devil-men desires the devil-women to be seeded by the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ men and the devil-women desires to be seeded by the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ Y̲a̲h̲a̲w̲a̲d̲a̲h̲i̲t̲e̲ G̲o̲d̲ men.

    As it is written down in the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ scripture(s) within the Heavens, upon the Earth & within the dimensional universe(s) underneath the Earth, the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ man is the seed + the birthright + the blessing.

    The H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ men with, or without the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ women produces wheat, sheep, G̲o̲d̲s̲, H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲s̲, vessels of righteousness.

    The H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ women without the H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲ men produces tares, goats, devils, enemies of H̲e̲b̲r̲e̲w̲ Y̲i̲s̲r̲a̲e̲l̲i̲t̲e̲s̲, vessels of unrighteousness.

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    • Truthangel07 says:

      This is very deep.

      I was thinking this morning about this very issue. And what it is exactly that disturbs me whenever I see Black men with white women. Immediately, I knew that it was a spiritual disturbance more than anything. Your analysis only brings clarity to that.

      From the womb of white women, unrighteous white men came. And if a Black man plants his seed in her; literally, he’s creating an enemy within her toward his own people. It is unholy for any Black man to lay with a white woman.

      But as you know, men don’t think spiritually when they’re horny.

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  2. intellectualthoughtsonly says:

    How ignorant. It’s plain to see you’re speaking from hurt feelings. Get some therapy and speak for yourself and not black women in general. Not all black womean are threatened by white women. You don’t have a claim on any person in this world by the color of their skin. No one owes you anything, but your kin so don’t try and make humans feel obligated to be with someone of their own skin color. AND you wonder why rasism still exists??

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    • Truthangel07 says:

      This will be you first and last post on my blog.

      You don’t come into my house yelling at me! You were not invited here and I do not take any orders from an intruder!

      Apparently you didn’t read the front page of my blog: This is a place for African Americans! I don’t allow whites or others who disrespect my community in in way, shape or fashion.

      White privilege is not accepted here! And no whitewashed “Negropean” Coon is going to come on my blog talking stupid shit!

      I know what I see. And I will speak to that truth no matter who gets offended by it.

      BE GONE!

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  3. Nyala Lam says:

    I agree. The liberal attitude to interracial relationships is becoming more and more prevalent among white people, and they don’t seem to be aware or care about its negative implications. It is causing immense distress for African American women and also Asian men. It is also largely responsible for the social and racial tension in the multiracial nations of the world. I can guarantee that if people only dated within their own race and if interracial relationships were made illegal, that so much of the racism, pain and sadness in the USA would completely disappear.

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    • Truthangel07 says:

      Interracial marriages were illegal in America until 1967. The Supreme Court had deemed anti-miscegenation laws as unconstitutional. However, given the current racial plight in this country at this very moment; I can’t feel sorry for anyone who fell for the Okey-doke, and drank the Kool-Aid that was being marketed back in the nineties. Many young people were brainwashed into believing that dating or marrying a white person meant that racism didn’t exist. The hell it didn’t. You see, you can’t change what is in the heart of people. And then there is the genetic component. White people essentially are genetic defects (they can’t produce melanin). They also have a lot of negative mutations in their DNA. Mixing with them is the equivalent of bestiality. They are not HUE-man (people of color); they are Neanderthals. Cave dwellers. They also were cannibals and had sex with animals. Also, if one just would truly learn European history completely, the behavior of white people (Caucasoids) was absolutely depraved. Our genes are the most dominant of all races, which means: we are also 100% human. Why would any conscious Black person want that type of legacy in their offspring. This could get deep if I go any further. But essentially, basically, A Black man and woman are genetic equals. And this is why white men instilled so much hatred in Black slaves. We have the power to wipe them out genetically. But nature is already handling that, given that right now, the white race is at negative birthrate and could become extinct within less than 100 years.

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      • Truth,you better start telling bm and bw that are married to wp to make more money, wp addiction to painkillers is a mf pardon the French.Sharazad Ali told a group of bw married to wm,that the Cuckold sub-culture is growing rapidly among wm.Even white scientist are telling wm with low sperms count to let their wives have sex with bm,that isn’t deprived,that is well past crazy.But some of our people are dying to be with them so let them be.All I can say to bm bw married to wp,is that GOD is about to bring the King Saul moment to wp tell those bm/bw to eat their Wheaties.Have a great Holiday,get some rest you deserve it.GOD bless you Truth

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  4. Ryon77 says:

    I find it funny how black women in the us are worrying about their black men leaving them for white women, not realizing that it affects the white man them more, who are reluctant to date outside their race. As for as I can see, it’s always better when men reproduce with people from different race than women. When a black woman gets pregnant by a white man, the baby is going to look white, but when a black man get a white woman pregnant, that baby is going to be added to the black race and increase our numbers. So for me, it’s always better to see a black man with a white woman, than a black woman with a white man. We all need to remember that black men are the producers of black people, not black women, and it’s the same for men of other race. That’s why men can carry on their race with women from any race, women can’t. But I understand how you black women feel, god knows we feel the same way when you date white men. As a black man and a Jamaican I prefer black women especially my Jamaican women, but I love all black women. I would like you African American women to realize that you only make up a small percentage of the black race and that most black people live in Africa and will always marry each other, whether they like it or not, just like us Jamaicans. Black women in Africa only complain about black men marrying them too early and young, most of them are marry by they reach 25 years old. So if you African American women can’t find a husband in your country, why not get one from a different country, like here in Jamaica? Many African American women are marry to Jamaicans, Nigerians etc. We all are black people, only different country and culture.

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    • Truthangel07 says:

      Hi, Ryon.

      Thank you and WELCOME to my blog.

      Many AA women are marrying foreign Black men. I see it all the time in Georgia, my birthstate and current residency.

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    • Muff Kentied says:

      “When a black woman gets pregnant by a white man, the baby is going to look white, but when a black man get a white woman pregnant, that baby is going to be added to the black race and increase our numbers. So for me, it’s always better to see a black man with a white woman, than a black woman with a white man. We all need to remember that black men are the producers of black people, not black women, and it’s the same for men of other race. That’s why men can carry on their race with women from any race, women can’t.”

      This is truly one of the dumbest things I have ever read. I actually think I lost IQ points. Please never speak on important issues and especially any issues relating to science or biology ever again.

      Kthanksbye.

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      • Truthangel07 says:

        This is the most asinine posts I’ve ever seen posted on my blog regarding this issue. Biracial children come in a multitude of skin hues but to say that a child will look Black having a white mother is just beyond lunacy.

        Black people have skin tones ranging from the darkest of Ebony to the lightest of ivory. I’m not a promoter of IR unions by any means. They are an oxymoron. Black people who marry whites do so because they have become comfortable being with their oppressor and use the most ridiculous analogies and reasons as to why they marry whites, but never ever just simply state LOVE as being the foundational element of their union. That’s why IR relationships are not esteemed on my blog nor in the Black community. Simply put: they are not intelligent and are biologically and genetically backwards.

        Black people have the strongest genes of all races and the Black man and woman are genetic equals. Like it or not.

        White skin is caused by a genetic defect and whenever a Black man or woman marries a white person, literally, they have chosen something that is inferior to themselves.

        Don’t ever try to talk down to me again…I understand more about self-preservation, cultural pride, unity, and Black history than you could ever hope to.

        “This is truly one of the dumbest things I have ever read. I actually think I lost IQ points. Please never speak on important issues and especially any issues relating to science or biology ever again.”

        I find your last post hilarious, as well as ironic to the perception of your original post.

        Do not bother to post a reply.

        You are banned!

        Your disrespect will not be tolerated here.

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  5. barrie says:

    Well….the more things change, the more they stay the same…

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  6. Blackjazmine says:

    Interesting article and comments. As a black woman in her mid 30’s when I see interacial couples it doesn’t upset me. (Black man with a white lady) Living in California I see it alot and it is what it is. My brother always dated white women and it never bothered me. What amuses me is when I’m out with my black husband and a certain type of white woman will try everything in her power to get his attention while I’m right next to him and he won’t bat an eye. Certain type I mean like they will be affluent and attractive but you can tell that they prob aren’t happy in their own lives and really want some black dick types. This “type” I’ve wittnessed more then once like as in several times. Now this one time a black girl whom looked like a younger skinnier version of me did try to get hubby’s attention but she was so awkward and desperate with it so it was a fail. Nasty and desperate b’s come in all nationalities and are just used to men in general going crazy when they walk by but in reality they look like weirdos flipping their hair and doing all this extra stuff to get ones attention. This one white lady I witnessed even went as far as telling the all black kitchen crew that she was pregnant and the way she said it was halarious and an epic fail. She was trying to use her version of what she thought a black woman sounds like. “Mommas got a bun in the oven so make sure you feed momma well ya hee-ya!” Anybody whom was black within ear shot all gave each other the look.😂😂😂😭😭😭 This took place in New Orleans and this lady thought she was the shit, me growing up in CA I couldn’t believe what I was seeing I was in complete shock. It was like this lady was sexually harrassing these black men and they were supposed to be falling on the floor in awe! I said aloud what century is she stuck in and was so glad to be going back to Cali the next day. The lady and her friends knew I was from out of town and I definitely let it be known.
    Having attended mostly caucasion summer camps and many different schools in different states, what I have seen and learned about relationships period is a stand up woman is a stand up woman regardless of her race. So if a black man marries and has kids by trash of any ethnicity then that says alot about him as well. This white lady summer camp counselor I had my first year at camp took better care of me and my unruly head of hair then my own mother did. My black mother who wants to be white would slap relaxers in my hair and ruin it while this white lady whom didn’t know about black hair did know that a good detangling session, shampoo, deep conditioner and properly braided hair would do me some good and she took the time to do that for me. I asked the one and only sista that was at the camp to braid my hair one day and she declined saying that she’s only used to braiding caucasion hair. As a child at the time I really didn’t care I had already knew what she was about and I only asked her just to see what she would say anyway. A good mom or mother figure is just a good mom regardless of what race she might be period.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      BlackJazmine, I have 3 brothers and they all date/marry Black women. I don’t understand Black men or women for that matter who choose to exclusively date/marry white men/women; and then expect Black people to not question it. There are many Black people who have bought into White Supremacy and quite frankly, it just is offensive.

      I appreciate the candor of your comments, but I was a little confused as to how you really feel.

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  7. Amanda Richter says:

    Be jealous all you want, trash. White trash??? Youre trash for thinking people cant fall in love with a person because of their character instead of their skin color. I have mixed kids what are you going to do about it? My kids dad is from a island and every island black man says they cant even relate.to black Americans because you are an embarrassment to black people all over the world.

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    • Nyala Lam says:

      Shame on you Amanda, for having black children with a black man. Not only did you rob a black woman and a white man from a partner, you’ve also contributed to the extinction of your own race. There will be 4.5 billion black people in Africa alone by the year 2100. Meanwhile white people are going extinct. Black people really don’t need white women like you to help them make more black babies. Like it or not, you will always be seen as trash and a traitor, because that’s what you are. You are a hedonist, with no loyalty to convention or your own people.

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      • Hello Nyala
        You don’t know me, but wow some of the stuff on here is very interesting. By the way I am a white man. I’m close to 37 years old so yeah I’m a white man in the in-between period of having kids and probably not.
        Well to let you know, yeah I actually do find all women attractive just like black men who are straight usually do.
        Now, though this is true, for a-lot of reasons I have never dated nor had sexual relations with a black women yet in my life.
        Some white people like myself and men see what is happening, but you have to understand that people are allowed to choose who they want to be with. I would prefer to be with a white woman, because as you have made pretty clear, if white women or white men have babies outside of their race, the child for the most part is not considered white.
        I support the idea of white pride (that doesn’t mean supremacy) that just means I’m proud of my cultural and racial heritage and I don’t want it to die out.
        With that said, I wrote a short novella I am currently trying to sell. It is called Beginning and it shows an alternate history, where the demographic changes that the U.S. census reported as happening by 2015, (meaning more black or non-white babies being born in the U.S. then white babies), happened in my story 30 years earlier (1985).
        Due to this change and just due to current leftist politics, White people who started to feel oppressed due to their white skin or being white finally reacted by performing a major political action.
        Again it is called Beginning and it is on Amazon Kindle for 2.99
        If you can get past some of the reasons why Caucasians do what they do in my story, I think you will see a alternative towards maintaining racial purity for your own people as is the case in my story for mine.
        Thank you very much for your time
        Sincerely,
        Stephen Crowe

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  8. Layla says:

    I am sick white women! They are the personification of the devil! They are hypocritical false like to have sex with blacks men and they are racist to black women! I don’t see the sense in all this!
    When I walk in the street or I work to close contact where there are white women and blacks men, I realize these bitches they want to have sex with them. When I look the lust in their old eyes sometimes do not understand how men blacks don’t understand, they have the children with these bitches! The children born of these unions will be racists because having a white mother, his father will not tell nothing about to slavery and the all bullshit the white people still doing!

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  9. Angela says:

    These posts are so overwhelmingly ridiculous it literally makes me sick. I don’t even know where to begin to start my rant. First off let me make one thing clear: I am a white woman who Is proudly engaged to a black man. When we first started dating he worked part time at a fast food restaurant and made minimum wage. I made $3 more an hour than he did and did not work full time when our relationship began so you can’t say he was “in it for my money” or vice versa.
    I am a very liberated woman in the sense that I don’t take shit from anyone let alone my man as some commentators have made
    References that black men date white women because they can essentially walk all over them where as BW wouldn’t take their shit. I take a stand for myself where i see fit if I disagree with my finance’s take on something I let him know because that’s who I am as a person not because I’m a WW or a “wanna be BW” as some people may conclude. I take GOOD care of my man because I love him
    And want to bless him and he takes care of me for the same reasons. We both work, take equal responsibility of household chores, bills, etc. And where one of us may lack in talent (i.e.
    Cooking or laundry) the other picks up the slack because when you are in ANY relationship your SO should be strong suited in some of the areas that the other may be weaker in. It’s disgusting how some of you have the audacity to sit and bash WW, IR, And white people in general saying things like “white people are a joke/needy attention whores” that is the epitome of RACISM! the way most of you are generalizing the white race, IR, and WW specifically is outrageous and you should be ashamed of yourself. My fiancé and I have advanced in our careers, financially, and personally because we supported and encouraged one another to do so, not for purposes of gaining advantages from the other person. It is a blessing for BOTH of us when either of us, for example, get a promotion at work or a raise. It’s beneficial to us as a whole not individually. I just cannot believe the complete evident racism on this blog. I understand that we all have different opinions and different life experiences however for you to be so self righteous to belittle IR, or the white race implying they will “never change”, or coming to conclusions about why BM date WW especially when you have never been in an IR is absurd! If you haven’t walked in my shoes how can you have the authority to comment on it and judge it in such a manner? This post is appalling and exactly why BM consider BW “bitter” about their choice to date outside their race. I love my fiancé I would give my life for him. I have dated and been in LT relationships with white men as well, and I can
    Honestly say that my attraction to either race really has nothing to do with their skin color or not being able to get a WM, I really just fell in love with the person my fiancé is. His kindness, generosity, his laugh, his physical features too of course. Again, skin color plays no part in why I am Attracted to a man and if you want to live your life limiting yourself to dating someone because of the color of their skin, that’s your loss and your choice. It seems a lot of you that agree with this post are extremely narrow minded and live a very limited life full of hate, and resentment. Black love is great for those who find it, but so is white love, black and white love, Asian and black love and etc. Just because a person develops feelings and love for another person doesn’t mean they are turning their back on their culture or race or attacking the women of their own race. Let me be specific though; BM dating WW is not an attack on BW or the black race, GET OVER IT!

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Bitch, let me tell you one damn thing: No one asked you to post on this blog.

      Your arrogant response is typical when white chicks get the (((BOOM))) knocked out of your white privileged asses.

      The media and history has shaped the views of the public regarding you–however, everything about white women is a construct of the white male fantasy. Basically, you’re a piece of fiction.

      I’m sure what I say on this blog is very scary for you, but if I offended you, I’m ecstatic.

      You should have paid attention to the front, sweetie.

      This blog is not for white women–it’s my blog, discussing issues that are pertinent to my experience as an African American woman in America, as well as discussion of issues pertaining to my culture.

      I am not interested in listening to your soliloquy about how you met this black man. You’re just another white chick who doesn’t know anything about how racism has shaped this country, and how dare you tell me that the posts makes you sick!

      You don’t even have a clue of the system that gave you the arrogance to post this shit with abandon, never considering, that one: I actually know what that hell I’m talking about!

      Get your ass off of my blog, and take this shit to Stormfront. You tell all of those white men how you fell in love with this black man–and wait for their response.

      I will not esteem your ass on my blog.

      For further rebuttal, I invite you to review this response to yet another shocked white woman who thought she had the temerity to tell me what I should and shouldn’t say on my own damn blog:

      To I.I.:

      “WTF!

      I’m beginning to understand why white chicks always come up missing.

      Let me tell you one dame thing, bitch! I don’t know what the hell crawled up your ass, but I will allow this ONE post–so that I may address you personally.

      First off all, when you come to this blog, it states pure and simple: “Only the TRUTH is spoken here. Get used to it!

      What is this blog about? It’s very clear that I’m promoting Black love, community, and family values of the African American community. If you do not understand that and have negative attitudes, and views about my people, you are not welcome here–and will be banned immediately.”

      What the hell did you miss?

      We are not your slaves any longer and can say whatever the hell we feel like about you–to you–whether you like it or not!

      This is not a forum for angry white motherfuckers who are shocked that Black people actually CAN’T STAND YOUR ASSES and will most graciously tell you to your damn face!

      No. I don’t like white people–I feel absolutely no obligation to extend any type of kindness, respect, consideration or give the benefit of the doubt–in any way, when I see…every damn day, the hatred, viciousness, hypocrisy, arrogance, bias, and complete willfulness of whites, to continue in their oppressive and malevolent behavior toward Black people or POC (people of color).

      It’s about global white supremacy–and oh! how that white privilege prompted these rants from you–dare I say intellect had anything to do with them.

      Your words fall on deaf ears. I’m not listening to your bullshit because at the end of the day, when white folks have the audacity to try and chastise a Black person for exercising their damned right to an opinion; it’s treated as though it’s a crime. Well, it is not. Freedom of Speech is not just applicable for white folks!

      You will not have a platform to esteem your agenda here. More bluntly, I will not esteem whites–period. And if I’ve made you uncomfortable in anyway, I’M DELIGHTED!

      Because now you understand how Black people feel–every single day.

      Eat crow!”

      YOU GOT THAT, Angela!?!

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    • Nyala Lam says:

      Angela, you are just another disgraceful white women who has no respect for the integrity of the black race, black women and your own white men. It’s hilarious how you are trying to justify your relationship with all the color blindness nonsense. This is liberalism gone out of control. As a white woman, you needed to marry a white man and bring white children into this world. By not doing that, you are guilty of genocide. I can’t help but assume that you are poorly educated on the demographics of this world. The white population is shrinking and will be half of what it is now by the year 2100 – around half a billion. Meanwhile, the number of black people in Africa alone will increase to 4.5 billion. They don’t need the help of your white womb to make more black babies. Thank you very much for contributing to a future with no more blondes, redheads and brunettes. I hope you are happy.

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      • Hello Nyala
        My name is Stephen Crowe. I have read what you stated here amongst other people here.
        I tried to write you a reply. I completely agree with what your saying here in some ways. I am a white man btw, who finds as I stated in an earlier reply to you, that I find all women attractive, but due to social and real life realities (as I am getting older) I would prefer to date a white woman now because well I also don’t want to see the white race die out.
        With that said I wrote a short novella called Beginning, and if you get past any image or scene that you feel is negative towards black people in general, I feel you will understand what is truly going on in this world.
        The underlying theme in the story is it’s a solution that truly stops racism in it’s tracks in the U.S. forever and at the same time, it’s one that makes it’s possible for both white and black to maintain their racial purity.
        It is on Amazon Kindle right now for 2.99.
        Again the title is called “Beginning”.
        Thank you for your time
        Sincerely,
        Stephen Crowe

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  10. Elliott Randolph says:

    Black men we must do better. It would truly benefit us as men to instill some “across the boards” standards, and righteously live by them. When our women abandoned us during the feminist and socialization (welfare) time frames we formed a brotherhood no deeper than first bumps and head nods. We need to reinvent ourselves. We cannot let ourselves entertain this type of nonsense. Black men perhaps have grown weary of the “usual black woman”. I do know plenty true women who just happen to be black, I should say; as I convey generalizations and not absolutes. However I see far more black women who are just completely out of line… just down right disgusting if the truth shall be told. “I don’t need no man, Imma be mommy & daddy”…”girl I hit that b*t€h”…”bro what is you doing?”(addressing another black female)…etc. These are the dregs of humanity. These are the embarrassments of black men and we need to just leave them alone and let them die off. Who wants that? No one, no one on the planet; and it’s high time that black men STOP PROCREATING WITH THEM! What happened to the Brotha that the Temptations and O’Jays sang about? The defiance and behavior that is just down right unbecoming of a woman period; we have to stay away from no matter what. This is the majority of women that black men encounter. Finding a black woman that just might be of marriage material is like going dumpster-diving and expecting to find a Porterhouse Steak. The black women who don’t call them out, help them through encouragement, justify them, and even ignore them, are even more culpable though. They can make themselves as a whole more desirable for a Black man, or any man for that matter. By the way the true women that I mentioned before, yeah, they’re all married; married to black men. I hope I’m giving something to think about as opposed to arguing & splitting hairs. I doconsider

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Elliot, I’m not offended by what you said. Not at all. Why? Because, we actually agree.

      There has been a change in Black women and not for the better. Young Black women have absolutely no paradigm as women of past generations did as what is the “proper woman” to be. Many actually have become masculine in their look and behavior; muting into some kind of hybrid gender that reflects nothing anyone can identify with–thus, no one can logically intellectualize it in order to speak to it.

      Basically, many people in the Black community have become spiritually dead–and our families are paying the price for it.

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    • TiredofIt says:

      “When our women abandoned us during the feminist”

      Black men abandoned Black women LONG before that. Black women have always been feminists. We’ve always worked outside of the home and we’ve never been able to rely on any man to do right by us let alone provide for us. But Black men tried to become the new masters of Black women by characterizing us as inferior and less important than men because we are women during the movements. And Black women weren’t about to have that and rightfully so.

      Why do “pro-Black nationalists” nowadays think race discrimination is wrong and a cause worthy of rallying against, but gender discrimination is not only okay but the only way things can ever be right in the Black community? Why do Black women have to face pressure to give up their right to be seen as equal to Black men and all men for the Black community to progress? Its no wonder there is a divide.

      I agree with the rest of your post though. I’m tired of Black men only giving those type of Real Housewives and Love and Hip Hop Black women attention and then complaining about all of us. Stop messing with them.

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  11. Tonia says:

    Watch the old soul train shows…now that was black love…we had it once we can have it again……..now you know black men like the black women’s physical appearance. If you notice every time they date out of there race.they get a non black women that have black features…ie….big butt.dark skin.dark hair.big lips…etc…whether..it’s real or not…lol…lol..so,rest,assure my black sis.your desired…you really are…lol

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    • truthangel07 says:

      “Now you know black men like the black women’s physical appearance. If you notice every time they date out of there race.they get a non black women that have black features…ie….big butt.dark skin.dark hair.big lips…etc…whether..it’s real or not…lol…lol..so,rest,assure my black sis.your desired…you really are…lol”

      That may or may not be true, but if a person really wants steak, why buy pork chops?

      LOL

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  12. Sabaa Sun says:

    This is so,so.much bigger than black/white dating.The miscegenation trend we currently see,twisting in the media like a dust storm,is about the nullification of BLACK WOMENs’ roles as mothers’ of African culture.The illusion that “white mother is the right mother” is being blasted like dynamite into the consciousness of the black community,and the rest of the nation.It is not the first time;South Africa,Brazil,India, (and even Mexico ) had similar cultural nullification campaigns. Biracials,as a fact,have always been used to keep darkerskinned African people “in check”.That is why what we are living in/through is known as “systemic oppression “.By design the tactical approaches used to sustain the system,by those in charge,is meant to cause disruptions for every segment of the “lesser culture”.

    Women are sustainers of culture.Mothers pass on cultural knowledge to their daughters–the bad and the good.While white women can give birth to a child that appears black,that child will hold the “total”cultural values of his/her mother.That is not an attack on white/non white women;it is simply the truth.

    Black women are the only women,hands down,who can give birth to African children/culture.If you want to destroy the culture you need only destroy the woman. See the magic????

    With that said,when the dust settles,and the casualties of this cultural war have been swept aside, a true,African culture will remain;the culture will consist of black parents, with black children;the culture will be small,but strong. IMHO

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    • truthangel07 says:

      It’s very clear that this is systemic–and I’m using the tools that I have to fight it.

      I won’t tolerate it–and I’m calling the cowardice of Blacks who allow this without confrontation or who participate in this behavior willfully.

      How can you turn against your own people?

      Something must be terminated here. And I do mean: NOW!

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  13. originalwoman13 says:

    @ Truthangel, MsWanda, Real sad and others

    I understand very clearly that there are way too many black men out there that hate black women and I don’t discredit black women who say they live in areas where there is a high number of black males in IR who outright reject black women, but I just can’t believe that every black man on the planet hates black women, just can’t believe.

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    • mswanda says:

      Nobody here ever said the every bm hates bw.

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    • TTNYCRN says:

      @Originalwoman13

      Sadly, I will admit, that there are black men out there that suffer from extreme Uncle Tom syndrome and hate anything black including themselves. Thats the reality. However, do not believe this white media created hype that black men are lusting crazily for white women. As I told TruthAngel

      1) Black men do outmarry higher than black women but the outmarriage/interracial dating rate for black men is low. 9 times out of 10, the white woman is usually with the brotha when hee pool of white men is low.

      2) Most blacks that date interracially usually live on the West Coast ( Arizona, California, etc.). I live in so called diverse New York, and most people stick to their own race for dating purposes.

      I understand the frustration that black women go through with these Uncle Tom Negroes. Nevertheless Original Woman, there are still black men out there that love and would get on their knees for the black woman. I know this black man does not hate black women.

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      • originalwoman13 says:

        @TTNYCRN
        True! Black people have to realize that the magic of white supremacist media is to make the truth seem false and the false seem truth. They can make it appear as if black men are in crazy lust for white women. I notice that a lot of ww believe the hype as well; when a black man turns them down, it just tears them apart.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        ” I notice that a lot of ww believe the hype as well; when a black man turns them down, it just tears them apart.”

        This is happening. I’ve talked to some brothers who’ve actually been in situations where white women were shocked they turned them down.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      The intelligent among us know that most Black men love Black women–and marry them. However, what gets reported? The distorted view from the white media. That’s why I tell Black people to stop believing that white folks really love them. They don’t. But don’t mind using Black people to promote their true agenda: maintaining white supremacy.

      It’s not what they say…it’s what we see them do.

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  14. TTNYCRN says:

    Great topic TruthAngel, very diverse views from the commenters as well. I just wanted to present some of my opinions in regards to what has been said.
    As black people, I feel that we take a hill and turn it into a mountain when it comes to IR dating.

    1)Most white women are NOT interested in black men. Their main targets are still white men. They usually get with black men when their options are running low. Besides BM/WW unions have a high divorce rate anyway.

    2) It is true that black men do marry out more than black women however black men still have low out marriage rates. The group that has the highest outmarriage if I am not mistaken are Asian women, who usually pair with white men.Besides the few black men who marry out are not even your average black man. It is like snow in Miami.

    3)Most blacks who date interracially usually live on the West Coast (e.g. Los Angeles, Seattle, San Francisco, etc.). There are not alot of black people out there, so I could understand if a black person finds their “life partner” or “soulmate” with a non black person (usually white though) if they live on the West Coast. Unless they plan on dying alone, that is where their option would lie.

    4) Some commenters have stated that interracial dating is now becoming signs of racial progress and “moving past race”. NO ITS NOT. Even in the 1950s, there were magazine articles in JET about black men with white women/black women with white men and how it would move society beyond race even black people were getting killed in the South back then. Yet here we are more than six decades later with the same problem. The more things change, the more they stay the same.

    5) Alot of Negroes are lost and seek white validation. Even some so called”pro black” cats are a joke. They are Willis Tower Negroes TruthAngel. They talk tough and shout Black Power but deep inside, they lust for whiteness. Neverthless, there are genuine black conscious cats who seek to rectify the problem of white supremacy.

    Main crux of my statement TruthAngel is this. People have right to find their partner in life and if IR dating is your thing, thats your free will. But I think this IR dating thing gets overhyped by the media to ” show how colorblind we are” when that is obvious BS.

    Just my 2 cents.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      4) “Some commenters have stated that interracial dating is now becoming signs of racial progress and “moving past race”. NO ITS NOT. Even in the 1950s, there were magazine articles in JET about black men with white women/black women with white men and how it would move society beyond race even black people were getting killed in the South back then. Yet here we are more than six decades later with the same problem. The more things change, the more they stay the same.”

      I totally agree with this…

      It’s really a very racist thing to suggest to people who’ve been abused because of the color of their skin.

      And as an intelligent woman, I just can’t fathom why on earth a group of people that has gone through great lengths to enslave us, abuse us, exploit us, disparage us, and even kill us, yet, at the end of it all, they can’t resist being with us or loved (in their own sick minds) by us.

      I’m just not attracted to white males–period.

      White people, in general, just don’t age well…and this may sound superficial, but if you’ve ever noticed, as they age, they begin to look like something that should be on a morgue table.

      Nope.

      I do not want to be waking up to that every morning…

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    • Adeen says:

      Well said! All of this is the truth!

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  15. Real sad says:

    I dont get it.Look im not trying to be rude or anything truthangel but i just dont understand bw like you.If you or other bw cant find a man(im not saying u dont have one..you prolli do idk u well) then why not just date out?i mean im so sick of bw bitching and whining that they cant find a man…then a white guy or asian or spanish guy askes them out then they say no.Then they fall into this victim depression state…GET OVER IT! blk men are gonna do what the fuck they wanna do..they are grown ass men.If the bm goes into the wrong town and gets is dumb blk ass hang or shot for being with a white woman then so be it.

    And the statement u made about ww being the new blk mothers..no they arent .Blk men are actually staying and wifeing these women .Forget the dumb bullshit statistic that blks made up…most bm are not marrying bw..most are either not marrying no woman period or if they are marrying they are marrying out..just because you live in a all black area doesnt make them marrying inside their race a universal thing.Go to any mixed up area…and u will find them dating and marrying out.Blk women in general just needs to find a man that wants her…and bw need to stop worrying about men that dont want them

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Real Sad, go back and re-read the post.

      I made the arguments–very intelligently, but again, you have chosen to look at the superficial.

      This is economic, sir. That’s right.

      Whenever a Black man marries outside of the race, a Black woman is impacted by that economically. Marriage is a financial transaction in as much as it is about love.

      White women benefit from White Privilege and have been the direct beneficiaries of White Supremacy/Racism. They are the prime payee when their husbands die. Their children live off of the payout. When married to a Black man, if he dies, their children will benefit, as well as the new white husband that she marries. None of that money is being circulated with Black owned businesses.

      Black women are the mothers of our race. If many are not marrying, that is an economic negative, being that married women out earn single women.

      Thus, if Black men continue to marry outside, who does that hurt?

      And let me get you straight about something, Real, I can have any man I choose, regardless of race. I’ve always attracted a wide range of men all of my life, but I choose to be with a Black man, for one, my father is a Black man, and the man I desire to be with is my cultural and racial component. Black men and women are the original mothers and fathers of the earth–all life came from the continent of Africa.

      Why shouldn’t I expect the unions of Black men and women to be sacred?

      Lions come from Africa as well, and lions do not mate outside of their species. It weakens them genetically over time.

      If animals understand self-preservation, then I most certainly expect Black males to open up their heads and know this truth as well.

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      • Real sad says:

        I get what you are saying but not all people will agree with you.You cant force a blk man to date inside his race only..no matter how mad you get.Its just reality.If a blk man doesnt want to date a bw..he prolli is doing her a favor..like he is prolli not dating or marriage material anyways.Why care about people who dont care about you?respect bm that are willing to be with a bw.

        This is only hurting bw because they have absolutely no control over the community..its up to the MAN to stop it not us.Prolli you should talk to alot of bm that date out and ask them why.I really dont give a fuck what bm date to be honest because i date interracial too.

        And marry women get more money from whom? Bw need to get their own jobs…women in general need to stop relying on a man to save their ass..it makes a women look retarted and hopeless and sets the female gender 100 yrs.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Black women are outperforming Black men economically, given more sisters have college degrees and are moving up socially as well because of this, however, studies show that Black people who have pride in themselves and their community, are happier people.

        I grew up in a community as this…it’s very true.

        This is about stability.

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  16. Holmes says:

    Khadija Nassif goes in on Christelyn (Beautiful Biracial Children) Kazazin

    ‘I’ve heard said by some AABW (African American Black Women) who are in interracial marriages and are raising mixed children. Some of them are making a point of raising their children to reject any connection to AA Black people. So they’re basically pouring ALL their material resources into children they’re deliberately raising to have ZERO affection, respect or loyalty to these women’s own tribe. Sounds to me like a fast track to becoming the Black grandmother whose descendants claim was just a family servant and not a relative’

    http://muslimbushido.blogspot.co.uk/2014/05/the-importance-of-context-and-nuances.html

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Frankly, I don’t have any connection to other people in parts of the world who look in the mirror and deny the truth of their own reflection.

      Would anyone wise really expect such people to speak with clarity about anything?

      I think not.

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  17. Tyrone says:

    @Truthangel07

    Blackmen still believe the lies from days of old. Lest we forget, the behavior we witness today grew out of racial assumptions passed down from slavery. In my mind, the greatest danger to us is bad info. The belief that partial blackness is the same as real blackness is the root cause of the problem…It’s Not! But, we avoid this aspect of the issue, because many in our race feel the need to uphold white supremacy. Attacking the ODR would be too personal. We think that mixing with whites and others is pro-black?…I Disagree! If anything, we get the shaft. Look at any group of blacks that mix on a large scale in the diaspora…African-Americans, Dominicans, Brazilians, Jamaicans, Cape Verdeans, North Africans, etc. Each and every group has a boatload of problems that plague them in some fashion. Honestly, the colorblind crowd in our race is no different than our enemies. Both seek to dilute or destroy blackness just to achieve some utopian paradise that will never exist. I rebuke them in the greatest terms. They’ve harmed us enuf already. Some want to be slaves, but, they should not push self-hatred to other blacks…It’s Dead Wrong! Arrogant blacks are so smart, so they think? Smart is a relative term…Educated Fools! As it relates to blackwomen doing the same, the master plan is falling into place. Blackwomen have the melanin and dna other men desire. They support blackmen self-destructing, all of them. Sistas know the game that is being played. It’s not about other women, ignore the bs on tv. Blackwomen have aided and abetted this crap for too long. The pity party has been a smokescreen, knowingly going along with the program. The black male/white female dynamic was created by self-hating blackmen as a counterweight to the other…BW/WM. Truth, we got miles still to go. If we can’t even find our own worthy of attraction, the hole is much deeper than we assumed. This issue is vitally important, our survival as a race hangs in the balance!!!

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Tyrone, Black women aren’t chasing white men–as far as I know. Yes, you see more are dating and marrying white men, but this is a counter-response to Black males who out date them interracially, as well, it is also a contributing result of the Black male shortage in the AA community.

      White people are poison. There is nothing about these people that I find attractive and I certainly do not see them as any kind of savior–no matter how they try to perpetuate that lie to the masses.

      There is a reason why there is so much anti-Black behavior in the world.

      Read this, and tell me what you think: http://diaryofanegress.com/2013/08/26/the-occult-reason-behind-the-rise-of-global-anti-blackness/

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  18. Lucius says:

    @Truth Why is it that people spend so much time talking about black men/women they have no interest in or want nothing to do with? Why do people have to make a proclamation or big production out of dating out? If their is a store that has a known history of discriminating against people who like you but, when you go their they treat you well would you continue to shop there? Just for kicks remove store and insert white person and see if your answer is the same.

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  19. Tyrone says:

    @The Alchemist

    As human beings, we make life more complex than it should be. Men are supposed to love their people and the women that birth them…Simple? Somehow, this mode of being has flipped on men of african descent. Colored men, the same as nature itself. Seek to bleach their souls in ice water…Hypothermea! I don’t try to understand the peanut gallery anymore…No Sir! I just thank the Creator for giving me love of self…1st Rule! The world is becoming more dangerous as time goes on, unity is a must. Stay Strong Brotha!!!

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  20. BlueMoonZoe says:

    Very interesting comments. I’m not down with that … “We are the World” bullshit. And I think it’s very dangerous for any woman or man (of color) to tell their children that “Color doesn’t matter.” That mindset will get your kid killed. You can’t look at the Trayvon Martin case, and all the other cases where black people have been shot up, or beat to death by cops (& total strangers) and say … Color had nothing to do with it. Only a fool thinks like that. Color has EVERTTHING to do with it. I’ve always felt that black men who crave white women have serious self-esteem issues. If you can’t look at yourself in the mirror and love what you see – you sure can’t make love to someone who looks like you every night … Or want to produce children who look like you. We also must keep in mind that a lot of these black men are making babies with WW & walking out the door. These white chicks are taking black babies back home to their white family. A lot of biracial children (who were raised in WHITE homes) are now talking about all the racism they faced growing up in a white household. The white woman finds out that she really ain’t all that special after all, and all she’s left with are some brown babies and she becomes very angry and bitter. She can’t get a white man because he ain’t taking care of a n*gga’s kids. So guess who she takes it out on? The majority of white chicks end up bitter and stuck “raising” black children. And people wonder why so many biracial kids are so messed up.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      If you can’t look at yourself in the mirror and love what you see – you sure can’t make love to someone who looks like you every night … Or want to produce children who look like you.

      *Clapping*

      This is the quote of the day.

      Right on!

      And personally, I’ve witnessed the very thing you’re talking about (white mothers raising Biracial children). I posted a blog article about this very issue.

      There is no rainbow for many biracial children being raised by bitter white mothers.

      But frankly, I do not and will not ever feel sorry for a white woman who sexed before THINKING about who she was sleeping with and what they were making together. It’s all about sex with these women–hell, they even go to the Caribbean to pay for sex because white men don’t want them. Just because they want to experience Black D*ck. When the dude leaves her, then she wants to play Snow White again…and act like the victim.

      White women are exactly what white men are: DEPRAVED.

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      • Adopting Black children doesn’t change racist attitudes. Examples: Angelina Jolie, The Romney family, and Madonna. It’s all about blasphemous white savior image. They want to project the notion that they’re saviors of Black children to cover up the historic abuse and genocide of Black people around the world. I do believe in Jehovah God and the brotherhood of mankind, but we got to recognize that white people as a collective, along with some people of Color and even some self-hating Blacks, have done a lot of evil toward Blacks and others around the world. That has to be acknowledged.

        SB

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Very true, Stephanie.

        One of the biggest mistakes white people have made is to assume that Black people are not intelligent.

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  21. originalwoman13 says:

    For us black people who are not deaf, dumb, nor blind we have been witnessing for the last several years as the powers that be along with their negro followers attempt to erase the black woman from every part of society including our rightful place along side the black man as his natural mate and only TRUE ally/friend and as the mother of AUTHENTIC black children.

    “When you look at the statistical data, Black men are marrying outside of their race more than any group. Only 1 out of every 4 Black women are getting married, yet, the solution for this, is for Black women to marry out?”

    For a while now, some black women have been expressing like in some of the comments above their frustration and disappointment in black men. The sad part is that we have tooo many “black” men who have brought into the GREAT white lies about themselves, black women, and black people in general. We have “black” men at every turn publicly (on and offline) rejecting, disrespecting, demeaning, and denigrating black women for all the world to see and these men are not being called out by the black community about it. Black women are sooo sick and tired of being sick and tired. Some black women are responding to this phenomena by dating out and I believe that we may see some increase in sistas doing this in the coming years if the many black men who are doing so keep on this path of genocidal destruction. I do not and never will believe that IRs (especially with whites) is the solution for black women as this will continue to further divide the community. I also believe that it is the duty of both black men and women to teach and show our children about the importance and sacredness of black love.

    I notice that in some of the comments above, some black people are insisting that they will teach their children that “love has no color” which is basically apart of the integrationist/we are the world mentality. Any black person who does this are throwing their children to the wolves in addition to setting their children up for future disappointment in a very race-conscious white supremacist world. With all the evidence day in and day out in which white people are in sooo many ways blatantly telling us that they have absolutely NO LOVE for us its hard to see black people still talking and thinking in such a foolish manner. Lord, what will it take for them to see the truth? Hell yeah, black people in America are in serious trouble!

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    • truthangel07 says:

      My grandfather said it best, you just can’t help a fool.

      If you can’t see color, than why is it necessary to check the box on the census form, black, white, or other?

      They know the deal…GET REAL!

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      • a says:

        Checking a box is a legal procedure… it has to do with the color of law. White does not mean of European descent.

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  22. Lucius says:

    Thus topic always seems to evoke a great deal of reaction from all sides. Ultimately, if a person wants to date interracially I hope you find your AL Green Love and Happiness. However, when it comes to issues of, for, and about black people please have several seats. As a black man I am not concerned about individual black people but black people as a collective. Those of you who have the Camp Kumbaya or We Are The World attitude please exit stage left. I really have no patience for individuals who date interracially and want to rediscover their blackness and come up to you under the guise of brotherhood. My advice to those individuals is to follow the OJ Simpson model and divest totally from black people and the community. Instead of worrying about those individuals let’s focus on the people who want to be a part of the community and uplift one another. I have said it once before YOU CANNOT BE PRO BLACK AND DATE INTERRACIALLY!!!! Proud Black Man Loving Black Women Since ’76!!!

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    • truthangel07 says:

      *Clapping*

      Take a bow, Lucius.

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    • Ann H. says:

      SouthernGal: You’re double taking You didn’t know that racism still exist? you cannot get any further south, Georgia! Where have you been in an Institutional facility and was release last yeat year?

      I was born and raise in you northern neighboring state, Greenville, SC and those back their says it is bad. And, it did not start with Barack Hussein Obama and it is wide spread for the African Americans. It easy for us to over sight it because the schools, neighborhoods and many business, such as, federal,city, county and state governments agencies and private companies must house and tolerate BA and unfortunately, some WF/WM, AsianA, SA all just tolerate you.. All the while learning alot about you and you are so grateful to be a part of the white world.

      In California the BM has gone bananas for light and mist of them from SA countries were is forbidden, this is why Latin females just having babies by BM who do not even have a job.

      Malcolm X said, “Black man, Black American, the negro or African America however you call yourselves must be aware of after 450 plus, you’ll realize one day that you have been bamboozled!

      Southern Gal and others when I hear you make statements: ‘We have racism in the 21st Century
      like you surprised. The all despises you and that I mean Latin, Asians, some, African nations, European nations because we are the only people beside one other small, country took a stand, And everyone from everyplace can come and take your stuff because of their skin color.

      You must educate yourselves with your history of and learn their language then you’ll understand their plight to enslave you again. Teach your babies self-love; tell them that you are proud to be their mother and their father; Tell them that they are beautiful and has royal blood running through their veins, go to the Museums in many cities over this country so that they can see the ancestors contributions in this country, therefore, they would develop into mentally strong males and females and understand the meaning of true brother and sister unity. “Knowledge of self and knowledge of others’ history or cultural will in assure you that you love you and do not have to imitate those others people. When you are love valued others either respect you or leave you be!

      Keep hope alive!

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  23. SouthernGal says:

    Great post, and I appreciate the dialogue on this topic. I love and respect black men. I married a wonderful black man. He’s no rapper or actor, but he’s educated, a great dad, and takes care of his family.

    I always believe that sometimes we place ourselves in the same community of people a little much. Yes, there are black people, but why must we care about their dating preference. As black people it is important that parents teach their children about their heritage, but, in this society where people are interacting more, there maybe some people that just click, despite the color of their skin.

    Lets look at Kanye West and “the tramp.” I don’t think he chose her because she was white. I think they chose each other because they are both psychologically and emotionally fractured. Consider their industry, their life experiences. This woman suffers with the fact that she will always be known as the girl who became famous for releasing a sex tape and having multiple public flings. Kanye West has been flailing down hill since his mother passed. Their circumstances could have connected them. Some times its important to look at the circumstances.

    I just wrote an article about this subject.

    http://socialworkingal.net/2014/05/29/black-women-arent-hating-on-our-white-sistahs/

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Kanye and Kim have a child together. It’s well documented that Kim KarTRASHian has questionable character, makes life choices that raise eyebrows, and generally, seems to come from a very dysfunctional, materialistic family. What kind of mother can she be if her own mother didn’t take time to teach her what being a respectable woman means by example. It’s well documented that she too was a groupie/golddigger. The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree. I pray for the baby. And for Kanye to WAKE UP.

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      • SouthernGal says:

        And Kanye’ doesn’t have questionable character? He has public melt downs and can’t control his behaviors. I don’t think everything is about race. They are both screwed up.

        I didn’t approve of her behavior in the past. But there has to be a moment when we get over it. People do some crazy shit in life. I know I have in the past and now I’m a great mother. She is who she is and she can’t take back the past. Kanye is also a little on the nutty side and maybe they have that connection. If they are happy and fulfill each other, I hope they live a long a prosperous life together. I hope Kanye teaches his daughter about her heritage, and I hope Kim doesn’t allow past mistakes to effect the way she parents her child. Her parenting shouldn’t be questioned because of her sexual history, but how she will parent her child going forward.

        This is how I view interracial relationships…God didn’t mean for us to just marry a certain skin color. I understand that in the black “community” black women are devalued and criticized, but that doesn’t mean that black men and white women can’t be soul mates.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        “I understand that in the black “community” black women are devalued and criticized, but that doesn’t mean that black men and white women can’t be soul mates.”

        You sound like an apologist. I’m not that.

        The statement above is intellectual dishonesty and I have to ask: how old are you?

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      • SouthernGal says:

        I make no apologies for my opinion. That’s why I don’t believe in the whole “community” idea among black Americans. We are all so very different, with so many different values. I’m just a realist! Some friends of mine have children in middle school, and their school consists of so many diverse people. They are all dating one another. It’s the changing of the times. Things are becoming more acceptable. I just don’t dwell on it. If people want to be happy outside their race, let them be.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Read your article. But as we speak, I will tell you flatly: I WILL NEVER CALL WHITE WOMEN SISTERS. Never!!!

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      • SouthernGal says:

        Thank you for reading my article! I understand the anger that we feel sometimes regarding racism in America. But as a Christian, I view all human beings as children of God, so in essence we are all brothers and sisters in Christ.

        I do have white friends and I love them just like my black friends. I can’t avoid the fact that we have cultural differences and our experiences as Americans are different. Racism will never be over. But I must say, that we can’t allow that to drive our entire existence. Life is short, and I choose to be happy, and to share my black heritage with my son when he is of age because I am proud of who I am. However, we have a generation of women and men who are not passing down this rich history of ours and its getting lost. Its not the interracial relationships, its the individual person. We are not all the same. We don’t have the same experiences, therefore, our values are different.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        SouthernGal, I just don’t share your views as relates to the sugar-and-spice philosophy of white and Black relations.

        Frankly, my perceptions of white people were from from an early age through basic observation and I generally view them as spiritually evil and morally toxic.

        I respect your opinion…but I just can’t concur with it totally, although, holistically, I understand where you’re coming from.

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      • SouthernGal says:

        I respect where you are coming from! My mother would agree with everything you said! She can’t stand white people and Hispanic people. When we in public I just shake my head, cuz we have totally opposite views on race in America. But she was from a different “realm”. lol I just turned 31..:)

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Understood…that’s because she knows something you haven’t found out as of yet.

        I’d like you to read this story…

        4 Year Old Destroys Babysitter’s Plan To “Blame The Black Man” In Home Robbery
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        It’s no secret that “blame the black man” is a time honored tradition in America. And since there is still so much fear and suspicion that lingers when it comes to black men, it’s proven quite effective, even today, when you want to pin a crime on someone.

        But luckily, four year old Abby Dean of Whatcom County, Washington was there to save the day with her heroic honesty. As a child, it can be hard to speak truth to authority figures, hell even as an adult. But when Abby’s 17 year old babysitter claimed that her employer’s home had been burglarized by two black men, it was Abby who stepped forward to set the record straight.

        The extremely intelligent four year old told a Fox affiliate that “Wednesday was the worst day in my life.” She was there when the house was burglarized and told reporters that the robbers “… told us to get out of the house ’cause they wanted to steal stuff.”

        They stole a number of the employer’s belongings and Abby recalled that they nabbed her kitty bank, iPod, Xbox and Wii.

        When questioned by authorities the babysitter told police that one of the thieves looked like the next door neighbor, a black man.

        Cody Oaks, Dean’s neighbor, was handcuffed and questioned by police for hours until Abby chimed in to tell authorities the truth.

        She said,“It wasn’t the right skin color.” She said that the robbers were white and not black. Once Abby spoke up the babysitter’s edifice of lies started to topple and she confessed to the crime, admitting that it was her 16 year old boyfriend and another accomplice who had actually robbed the house. Abby’s mother said she’s very proud of her daughter, noting that within 30 seconds her admission changed the questioning scene which had been going on for five to six hours.

        Oaks, the neighbor, says what he finds troubling is the fact that the babysitter doesn’t realize the type of danger she could have potentially caused for him and his family and he hopes she learns from this situation.

        The babysitter and her two accomplices were arrested and may face robbery, burglary and perjury charges.

        Take a look at this video of Abby explaining the ordeal to the news crew. Listening to her speak, it’s clear that the babysitter didn’t understand what type of child she was dealing with. This little girl is too sharp for the shenanigans and potentially life altering, bold-faced lies.

        http://www.madamenoire.com/441616/4-year-old-destroys-babysitters-plan-blame-black-man-home-robbery/

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      • SouthernGal says:

        Oh yeah, I’ve read this article. Its a damn shame. I know that racism in America still exists. My husband has this saying and I believe it with all my heart:

        “At the end of the day…they white, we black.”

        There are some things that black people can’t do that white people get away with, and that angers the shit out me. So I see! I understand. Our response to this phenomenon is just different.

        Sometimes when I see inequality among the races I say: “At the end of the day….” and just leave that part out. People never know what I’m talking about, and I just leave it at that.

        But I won’t allow that mess to challenge me as a Christian. We are brothers and sisters in Christ and have lives to lead for our children.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        You have hit on an important point: There are some things that only God can solve.

        And that can mean good or bad.

        We’ll just have to wait it out to see the end result.

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  24. […] Source: White Women Have Become “The New Black Mothers”… […]

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  25. Nat Turners' Revenge says:

    Not wurr’d bout nothing. Them numbers, that propaganda is a lie. Black men ain’t on them snow bunnies like dat. When they perpetuate the myth that a ww is a black mans kryptonite it only serves the lie she is the standard of beauty. BS. This you all know. If you are the vanguard of anything you probably did something amazing and 1st. BW have always had the lips, the hips, the ass, the class, the tan, the (Black) man… All stock parts in a compact zip we call Soul. We was and will always be the standard. Don’t believe the hype. Black relationships outnumber ir any day. We don’t advertise. This post only benefits them, letting them infiltrate our world and psyche. For the ones who fell for it, be honest, they not Africans you’d want by your side.

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    • mswanda says:

      Yes they are. I live in Az and that’s all I see. Seeing a black couple with children is like seeing a unicorn. These bm come out here and lose their damn mind over these snow bunnies. I’ve spoken to 2 bw that had bm leave them for ww. Maybe I should tell them about the weave they wear. Maybe that is why they lost their men.

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      • Tyrone says:

        @mswanda

        The West Coast is ground zero for this insanity. Cali being the capitol of it all. When blacks migrated from the deep south to escape jim-crow laws, racism, and the kkk, the blackmen changed. Got out there and spazzed out. Basically, the swirlish behavior was dormant until they found greener pastures, Really? Arizona is cali light, the same mindset exist. Blackmen have been lied to. All of the adulation is pointless, our status has not been advanced because of mixing. The institutions within our race push this dogma. Whites will always meddle in our affairs, that’s a given. Again, the one drop rule is the alibi, it’s a problem.

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      • The unicorn couple in Arizona is my cousin and his family. It’s so true. The further west and north of the US is full of Blacks dating/marrying outside of his/her race. I rarely see such relationships in the South, Midwest, and the Mid- Atlantic states where Black people are overwhelmingly with each other. I think it’s a Southwest/West Coast phenomenon.

        S.B.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      This topic was put up to make people to think–and YES! It is provocative. However, I did that intentionally because the very thought of it is an oxymoron to those who know the deal.

      Of course, relationships and marriages between Black men and women outnumber IR unions, particularly those involving Black men/white women, which by the way have the highest divorce rate in these unions; the irony however, reflects that Black women married to white men, actually stay together longer than IR’s overall.

      Imagine that…

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    • Adeen says:

      Yes they are. I see Black women chasing, approaching and dating non Black women especially White women all the time. In my generation, it seems like Black men only want mixed, White, Latina and any woman that is not Black. 22% of Black men married outside of their race in 2008. http://abcnews.go.com/WN/Media/black-women-marry-interracial-marriage-common/story?id=10830719

      Black men in the West particularly Britain, where 50% of the Afro Caribbean British men are married to or in relationships with White women, are dating outside of their race are staggering and high rates. And many of these men refuse to date Black women

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  26. Adeen says:

    This is an excellent topic and yes, White women and non Black women are the new Black mothers. Many Black men in America are flocking to non Black women and having children with them. Interracial dating and marriage and having mixed children is becoming the norm. Mixed race children are the future of this country. We must accept it as an reality.

    And there is nothing wrong with dating outside of your race. However I do hate it when a Black person, who dates interracially, makes disparaging comments about the opposite gender of their own race. Other than that, I don’t see anything wrong with dating and marrying outside of your race, culture or ethnic group. People are people regardless of their race and ethnicity.

    I am a young, single and attractive Black woman. I will be attending university soon and plan on getting a degree in four years. I don’t see the need to wait on Black men anymore. Most Black men my age wouldn’t give me a second look and prefer non Black women. So I have decided to broaden my horizons and open my options to all races of men. I don’t see any need to date Black men exclusively. I want a find a suitable mate for me who will love me regardless of his race. There is good and bad in all races of men. Thus I refuse to limit myself to one race of man.

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    • mswanda says:

      Good for you Adeen! Don’t wait around for bm because they are sure as hell not waiting for you. I as a bw I will not take any of the blame for bm wanting non black women. So wearing hair weave is the problem with bm not wanting us. Mass abandonment of black children blame that on the weave too. I didn’t know weave was so dangerous.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        MsWanda, you missed the point.

        The weave comment was in reflection of how Black male children are interpreting their mothers who are engaging in Euro-centric beauty standards, all the while, not teaching their sons to love Black beauty, and being a single mother, unloved, uncared for, and unprotected by a loving husband, translates that perhaps ALL BLACK women have some kind of problem, thus, when they become men; they look for what is opposite of what was their general paradigm.

        Parents teach their children how to love–but if a parent doesn’t love themselves, this also translates psychology to a child and can have damaging affects.

        That was my point.

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      • Ann H. says:

        This is a good subject discussion and I love the input.Missed girl , you’re way off the center. I have been talking this 30 years plus. And, now we’re getting it. How can you go forward, if you never looked backwards? You need to read , listen and observe your surroundings.

        In the 1950’s during during civil activities between African Americans and white America there was a governor who was referred to as “Bull Connors”.of Georgia. He a racist bigot, KKK supporter and very out-spoken in his thoughts concerning us but he would use the n-word as if was something nasty. He despised Dr. MLKing, Malcolm X and every human being with dark skin. He spoke venom of hatred just because he was frighten of the Black man, His attitude drew mighty curosity from Nations all over this world. They beginning criticizing white America for their treatment but more so because at that time the USA was number one.Media people from afar would send their people over because some of those same countries the USA look down on and criticize their belief, such as, communist China, Russia, Great Britain, Congo, Nigeria, India, Spain, only a few nation begun pointing fingers at great and powerful; America who still believe in slavery and subjected AAmericans of discrimination in every level of humanity. Remember Malcolm X, Huey Newton, Angela Davis, Dr. King, etc.

        Governor Bull Connors of Georgia was not bashful with his thoughts of the AAmericans trouble makers as do many thinks in the 21st Century, today was not bashful in their self-hatred for himself stimuli into resentment, jealousy and hatred for a people who was feared by most men but secretly loved by his own daughters but spit out the same venom like her daddy, Sarah Palin. Well, as our journey towards independence from this crazed people, just like some of the Republican members and other wealthy whites gathered against President Obama. They secretly conspired by any means necessary to destroy the AAmericans for stepping outside of the box and making headlines of the atrocities happening in our communities from the South to the North to the West all along the borders and as far as the eyes could read the AAmericans were making a change and told this evil being secrets. He did not like this and conspired to destroy the AAmericans families but these people saw the strength of the AAmericans that if we become 98% solidified and it would have been the second time that USA have been defeated. What is the first Black Nation to have defeat the USA? Anybody out their know the name of the leader and country?

        Their determination to not allow that defeat as if we could without guns but we had serious educators, business owners, doctors, lawyers, political activates who was not afraid to sacrifice his or her life for ‘freedom” for our people who studied these monsters and of course, the Black Muslims activates who differ but held common ground when need.

        In see that their slaves were now said “Hell no We will never take more of your barbarism. We have been patient over 400 years and it time, our FREEDOM begin a new political awareness all over the world; and these crazy barbarisms believed that they had to do something to prevent what they new would come, therefore, noticing their females eyeing the Black man, especially, Dr.King. They decided that we must “:KILL” this trouble maker and in what better was to have his daughter seduce the Black male and infiltrate our organizations and they were to come back and report of what the learned.

        Some Black males were always curious about and wanted his revenge but like her daddy she had an advantage she was fascinated by BM. She was curious of whether he was what her father had said him to be physically and the BM was always fascinated because he was taught to respect and protect her all his life which has been passed on for centuries. What do you expect from some BM
        that she dog as she is, he is to always give this titch respect, to die for, love his and her white skin ad straight hair; and deny his Black family, the women and himself, but be beholding and respectful to his white daughters and those who from his SPERM lineage. The BM has been programmed to love white or similar to white, and the Beyonce, Boris Kodjoes, Barackl Obama, Frederick Douglass, Smokie Robinson,Lisa Raye, etc.

        Well, in 1956 Governor Bull Connors refused to accept the moving of the AAmericans and he was asked a question (s) “Why” “What” “When” and “How” to most questions. He said something about the BM and BF. He said that these Blacks don’t want freedom especially, the BM and he was smiled as he said, “the n. gal, I see potential in her; and her prospering some; but that old n. boy i question his wanting his freedom; and laughed and pointed to a WF stand beside a BM; and he said laughing for he don’t want but one thing and that old boy is happy, happy’. They want freedom let they have it and laughed again!

        A few years afterwards Dr. king was murder and Malcolm X was murder by those who looked like him. Well, you see to end results! And, BM have been proving that racist barbarism politically correct.Looking around you.

        We need to invest in knowledge about ourselves and seeking the beauty in who we are. The slave masters reign havoc in the slaves houses and raping and raping investing by selfishly pro-created self hatred for the color of our skin.It was caklled +”cultura; genocide” and into days time it’s called “love for” for the BM.

        Did you see the article about that whose last name is “Howard” for I have never believed that that connect wasn’t as hapopy.

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      • mswanda says:

        What in the hell are you talking about? Are you foreign or just plain dumb. I could not make any sense out of that gibberish you were saying.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Adeen, I don’t know what the men are like where you live, but please do not be yet another Black person who feels they have to date/marry outside of the family just because some ignorant people hurt your feelings. That’s not the way…Love is something that can come to you, but you first have to love yourself more than anyone else.

      Black love is sacred. It’s what made you.

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      • Adeen says:

        I never felt respected, loved or wanted by African American men. I don’t see any need to wait on them or date them exclusively, which I never dated African American men because most of them don’t gravitate towards me. I was always too dark, skinny or ugly for them. I feel like I get more respect from non Black men. None of them call me too ugly or too dark. And I can have conversations with White or Latino men without feeling awkward and being shot a dirty look. And they seem to love my dark skin and slim figure. I don’t see any need to pursue African American men anymore

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Adeen, I’m sorry you’re having these type of issues, but I know many young sistas with the very physical traits you mentioned, and they get approached by young Black men all the time.

        Could it be that you’re emanating so much negativity about Black men, this somehow is being transmitted back to you in the way they respond to you?

        Like attracts like.

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      • mswanda says:

        I hear ya adeen. You will be a fool to wait for bm. Bw need to get a clue. We are suppose to wait on them for what? Do that and be in your 40’s and childless. I must tell you I dated lots of wm and it was not good. Right now I have 2 stalkers on my hands. Almost all were bisexual and just were looking for sex. Avoid wm like the plague. Sure they seem nice but don’t let that fool you. They just want to use you. But I do suggest you date other races of men.
        Now truthangel it’s not about getting your feelings hurt by bm. They as a group have shown that they just don’t care and like another commenter on here earlier said that black men are trying to run away from blackness. Why would you advise a young bw to be a fool and wait for her black knight. I haven’t be approached by a bm in 8 years and I’m pretty. Bm have checked out of the bc and out of the lives of bw and children a long time ago. Bw need to move on and live their lives and quit this one sided black love crap because the only ones buying it are desperate, lonely bw. Wheres the reciprocity here. Bw are faithful and love bm but that love is not returned. I’m seeing now bw that are dating out and refuse to be alone. I’m happy for them and i see that young women are wising up and not falling for the okey doke. Now black people didn’t seem to have a problem with the swirl till bw started doing it and then it became a problem.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        MsWanda, no disrespect, but I don’t understand Black women who say they don’t attract Black men. I’m sorry…I’m not buying that. Like attracts like, and if you are negative about Black men on the inside, this perhaps could be the reason why they avoid you.

        I love Black men and it is always reciprocated.

        Think about what you said… 🙂

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      • mswandaT says:

        TrutI you are wrong. I guess all the bw that I encounter are negative and hate bm especially the 2 sistas from Chicago that lost there men to ww. The black nurses at my job that tell me the same thing about bm out here won’t talk to them. The bm at my job date ww and won’t even say gm to me except one. I even had a bw tell me she was at the club and a bm tapped her on the shoulder and told her to ask the ww besides her to to holla at him. You live in the South and that swirl crap ain’t flying there but on the west coast the Negros have lost there damn mind. So please don’t tell me it’s me. I guess all the other bw are lying also. The nurse from Chicago told me she is thinking of going home and she have never experienced such disrespect before. See truth you don’t live out here I haven’t a clue what is going on. This is the future for bw all across the country if this trend continues. This is what you are writing about and this is my reality. I don’t hate bm but I not looking for them either. I believe in reciprocity and if the bm have shown that he hates me I not gonna beg him to love me. I’m just gonna live my life. There are other men out there and I don;t mean wm.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Than, MsWanda, pack up and move.

        There is no sense in staying someplace you aren’t happy being…

        Also, the next time a Black man disrespects you out there, tell him to his face what I say here.

        I’m not trying to accuse you of anything, but obviously, there is a different vibe out there and perhaps, I’d even speak to others in the community to gather some form of response to it as a whole.

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      • Lucius says:

        @Ms Adeen& Ms Wanda, in regards to your comments and feelings I certainly do respect you and them. My question is it black men or the black men you like and want. I am often amazed how people don’t want to be generalized but do the exact thing to others. It isn’t that black women can’t find a quality black man but rather cannot find the black man they want. People are not looking for that special someone as much as that particular someone. While others debate about Black Love I live the example everyday. Much love to both of you!!!

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  27. A says:

    I like alot of what you post alot of it is real in nature but Im sorry this one I couldnt let just slide. White women are not becoming the new black mothers, their are the same old white mothers. Why are we so worried about whos making kids with which race. Blacks and whites aren’t the only races that are having children outside of their races. Living in houston I see all kinds of people dating outside their races, young ppl who aren’t even thinking about having kids nevermind what shade their born and how their hair looks. What we should be teaching our children is not which color to look for but who will make a good wife or husband. What it takes to have a good relationship etc. I have two sons of my own and I dont care which race they choose. I just hope they pick a good, strong woman who will respect them, treat them right and be good mothers to their children.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      The unique history of Black people in this country does not reflect a people ‘choosing’ to come here and pave a way for themselves as most other races have done. Our ancestors were brought here in chains–against their will and forced to work FOR FREE for 400 years in bondage, and build vast empires for white men–who did not give them a stake in the wealth, but treated them brutally physically and inflicted severe psychological wounds that even to this day, have not healed within our people. This is beyond love, sweetie; it’s about Black people being freed from the bondage of white hatred. Why on earth would I want to marry someone that is a product of the very system that enslaved my ancestors?

      Those who love themselves, want nothing to do with that.

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      • A says:

        I am very aware of the history of black ppl in this country, however its not a unique one. ppl have been enslaving other ppl since the beginning. And like
        I said I live in Houston, so many of the black ppl here are not even from this country. So what ur saying is I should teach my children only American black is beautiful? No. God teaches us forgiveness sweetie. So you’ll never hear me tell my son “no baby I dont like that girl for you, her ancestors may or may not have enslaved yours”. Stop it. As a race we really are worried about the wronge things. Apparently a lot more of us should have been worried about teaching our son to be better fathers and husbands, then some of ladies on here who seem pretty inelegant, would choose to date black men.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        You don’t get it.

        And you reflect an attitude in the AA community that allows the wolf to keep killing the sheep.

        Would a dog teach its puppies to love cats?

        Self-preservation is the first law of history.

        Wake up!

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      • mswanda says:

        I have have to agree with you truthangel. It’s like asking dogs to love cats. I guess I took offense to your article I felt like you were one of the many black bloggers blaming bw again and I’m very sensitive about it. But after reading A’s comment I understand where you are coming from. But I will say about weave you are wrong. Bm been abandoning bw and children way before hair weave. Now I think about it bw do have a lot to do with it. They raise their boys to be women and girls to be boys. We can’t continue to prosper as a race. Black boys are not taught to love black women. This colorblind crap is not working for us as a race.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        The title was an intentional oxymoron. It was meant to provoke some DEEP THOUGHT. It’s provocative–yes, but Black people are asleep at the moment, and we’re paying a price for that.

        White people are filled with hatred toward our people.

        They don’t like us, never have, never will, and I will more than likely oblige to them the same.

        Trayvon Martin and Jordan Davis were just more recent reminders of the true nature of that threat.

        Being in bed with a white man/woman is not going to change the history that is between us–and it is a sick relationship at best.

        We must cut this cord with these people. We are unequally yoked.

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      • A says:

        If what you mean by “I dont get it” is that I dont share the same tunnel vision, old world view about the subject as you, well your right on point! And of course I don’t I am of mixed race my mother is AA and my father is Mexican American. I was pretty sure they met, married and had kids because they loved each other, not because my father was trying to bring down the whole race of black ppl. My mother is a strong, educated, black women who taught us that the only things that stand in our way and bring us down are the things (or ppl) we allow. And you can trust me when I say mixed children get rasicim from every where. Im not mexican enough cuz I dont speak Spanish. Im not black enough cuz my hair is straight. When Ive been out with black men Ive had black women who didnt know any better ask them whats wronge with sistas? None of this do I let get to me. And while im teaching my sons “self preservation” I dont teach them color because that is the way of the past. (Second rule change and adapt)By teaching that i wouldnt be any different then the white ppl who brought us here base on the color of our skin. I teach them to watch out for ppl in general cuz their is evil in every race. Now to that dogs and cats comment really? We are all human baby, no matter color, religion, and mind frame.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        I’ll have to respect your opinion. I just have a totally different view point–I’m sure I’m older than you, and my experiences and observations of white people were formed from a young age.

        Race does matter in this country and in many parts of the world.

        This is life, and if you choose not to react to that, that’s your right, however, when you are facing something that is obvious, calling it something else will not change its reality.

        As a snake will always shed its skin; its nature will not change. And this is how I see white people.

        And by the way, I know very well that many Mexicans do not like Black people and can be very racist toward them, depending on where one lives in America. And Black people in general can react negatively to that.

        I’m sorry if you’ve been impacted by this, but as I said, you can’t run away from certain realities.

        So, it’s a slippery slope indeed.

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      • Chi-He says:

        Excellent response!!

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  28. thanks for today’s posts,.. Not to make light of the topics at hand but your “grand piano smile” comment had me rolling. Priceless.

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  29. Tyrone says:

    @Truthangel07

    Thank You Sis!

    This issue is about power and control, the asthetics are deceiving. Sistas have never been told the whole truth about the bm/ww dynamic. A basic premise that some blackmen employ…sistas are too demanding, bossy, and other monsense. Please understand that this is the catalyst. Once the bossy indictment is leveled against sistas, it becomes a matter of refinement…blackwomen like to show their asses, too loud, etc. Third stage, looks get involved…latinas look black, middle-eastern look black, chunky white girls, pawgs. Yeah, these white chicks can birth brown or high-yella babies just the same. Mental conditioning comes in at this point…as we know, the beauty of the baby is a big deal in black culture. In the past, it was presumed that ugly blackmen would sire mixed babies by default, i guess? So, all the undesirable brothas got with the chunky white chicks to not curse the baby. Hip-Hop came alive in the burbs. What we see today came from this union. Blackmen in hip-hop project a sort of uber masculinity to the masses. Women have not changed all that much, so, the attraction to blackmen was inevitable. Now, the black baby aspect is political in nature, meaning, breeding a white female is the ultimate political statement and act in relation to white male supremacy…Payback? Okay, the marriage of black male sexuality with black nationalism produced Kanye West and Kim K. Notice the phenotype? Kim is on the darker side of whiteness…Arab, Persian, Greek, Italian, Spanish, Portugese, Deep South. This dynamic is driven by revenge more so than sex. All of us know that black genes are dominant, so, the babies will be colored(creoles). I would say that most heterosexual blackmen are attracted to brunettes by default. Men like other women that look like their mothers more or less. Naturally, whitewomen are aware of this yin and yang as well. Same goes for blackwomen…latin, arab, persian, south-asian men. Some years ago i wrote a post on another blog which i titled “Black Again.” Basic outline of the post…human beings obsess over black folk so much because they yearn to be what they once were…Black! In many ways, we see this manifested in caucasian females. Asian women have jumped into the fray as well. The black babies are so cute, smooth satiny skin, curly hair…women love that ish. This is human nature at work. If slavery had never happened and the moors conquering europe, women would still be chocophiles just the same. These are just observations of what i see in and out of black culture. Sane brothas understand this, otherz are still unlearned. Knowing the why of something matters, otherwise, all of us would be insane.

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    • Adeen says:

      Woah, how did you figure this out? I like your comment but as a Black woman, I consider dating outside of my race as an option. I can’t limit myself to Black men especially when they aren’t attracted to me.

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      • Tyrone says:

        @Adeen

        We have to remember that black males are brainwashed into thinking they can re-invent the wheel. Some of us have given in to the inevitability of the swirl, i disagree. White and Black media are one in the same…BET, VIBE, Essence, and various black blogs are white-owned. They’ve created this mindset that black love is dead just like in England. As always, the power structure targets the artisans, singers, athletes to push their agenda. Blackwomen have blame in this as well. For a long time, i would see sistas on stupid talk shows defending this behavior with glee…Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, etc. These shows reinforced a negative image of our women. Meanwhile, other women avoided these shows like the plague. It’s not just one thing that caused this mess. Right now, brothas are so blinded by the allure of power via sex, they can’t see their own demise as a race of men. Blackmen think they’re winning, Not Really? Mixing is not conducive to us moving forward as a people. As time goes on, blackmen will be forced to deal with the obvious contradiction at hand.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Adeen, the right man will come along…don’t be discouraged.

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      • The Alchemist says:

        @Tyrone @Adeen,

        Before talk shows like Jerry Springer hip hop promoted the image of black women as hoes, b$tches, etc. These images pushed by hip hop made the images on Springer acceptable. I’m not surprised black women are blamed for negative images of us. Black men in the Communist Party of the 1930s and in SNCC in the 1950s chased white women hard. The image of Black women then was not the image pushed by rap music but black men still pursued white women. The white women chasing really picked up when the lynch noose was put in the closet by white men. When it became safe to openly sex white women black men went Becky chasing. The image of black wome has NO impact on this behavior, it is merely an excuse used to blame black women.

        …” Okay, the marriage of black male sexuality with black nationalism produced Kanye West and Kim K. ..”

        This is why I’m not a black nationalist. To black men, black power = chase white vagina.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Tyrone, you sound like a very deep brotha. And I respect your mind. My first novel came out in 2011 and I dedicated it to Black men. It’s really a letter to brothers and I talk in depth about many of the issues that are the mind of Black folks, but particularly Black men and women. I speak very candidly, but with proactive intent, on those issues. If you like my blog, you’ll definitely enjoy this book, brutha. Get a copy today: http://www.amazon.com/Journey-Into-Mind-Black-Woman/dp/1468025228/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1403706221&sr=8-1&keywords=A+Journey+into+the+mind+of+a+black+woman

      This book was spiritually motivated and I wrote it to young Black males of my generation in order to OPEN THEIR EYES to the real truth.

      Check it out…and also inspire other brothers that you know to get a copy after you finish your.

      🙂

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      • Tyrone says:

        @Truthangel07

        Basically, what’s taking place is a proxy war between 2 races of men that despise each other. So, whitewomen are in the middle of this ongoing feud. This battle is not about advancing the black race. A lot of biracials have malice for us, so, for any brotha to claim victory is far-fetched. Yeah, we may have Becky under our spell…Supposedly? For years, i’ve observed sistas bemoan the fact that other women are better than them because Andre is playing in the snow. No, this cultish behavior has nothing to do with looks. Focusing on the physical allowed us to ignore the truth. Which is, too many of us still use white manhood as our measuring stick. Negros can say whateva, Massa got them whipped in the other way. A lot of brothas stayed quiet on this issue, we saw it as revenge…Tupac Where Are You? Ya’ll know the song…Hail Mary! True indeed, it is the ultimate payback. However, it’s not what it claims to be…The Larger Point! Who knew that white p***y was more lethal than gunpowder and the sword? The killing was a waste of time, in hindsight. Simply surround black males with hypersexual females not of his tribe…4th of July! Men see no color as it relates to sex, but, blackmen go above and beyond. A man may be curious to a certain extent, but, that should not cause him to hate his sisters, Just Saying?

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      • truthangel07 says:

        I hear ya.

        “The Larger Point! Who knew that white p***y was more lethal than gunpowder and the sword?”

        Another great one, Tyrone.

        You know what’s coming, right? 🙂

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      • Tyrone says:

        I Most Certainly Will!

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    • pinkmatter says:

      Very interesting post but I’m sorry I really don’t think its that deep.

      Black men seek to escape the social negativity of Blackness through who they mate with. That in itself is the appeal. It has nothing to do with Black nationalism, in fact its the opposite because it has nothing to do with the community at all. It stems from the potential ability to “escape Blackness” at an individual level.

      The appeal for white women on the other hand, is the “worship” they get from Black men in comparison to what they get from men of their own race. They also get an attractiveness boost when they cross over (a white woman that’s a 4 to a white man is a 7 to a Black man) as well as potentially a socio-economic boost since many rich/famous Black men appear to have an even higher percentage of preference for non-Black women than the general population.

      I think its important to keep it real and simplify the matter or else miss what is really the cause and at the heart of it all: Black men’s aversion to their own Blackness.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Very good points. I agree.

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      • mswanda says:

        Wow, Pinkmatter now that was deep. I have to agree with you. This was so on point. What I’ve been saying for a while is that most black men that make more than average money marry non black women. Leaving the poor black men for us. Even they are getting with ww to have them take care of them.

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      • originalwoman13 says:

        When ww drain these rich Negros outta all their money they come crawling right back to a sista. lol. This also reminds what Dr. Umar Johnson said, “You do not find rich ww marrying poor black men.” What’s love gotta do with it?

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Not exactly true, O.

        Charlie Wilson is married to a rich white woman who literally picked him out of the gutter (he was homeless), fed him, clothed him, gave him money, and then helped to re-start his career.

        Then again…white women love to pick up stray dogs too.

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      • Adeen says:

        Wow, I never thought about it that way.

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      • Chi-He says:

        Excellent point. It’s about racial self-hatred. It’s a game that the white man has played well and that black men have taken the bait. White women want to marry and have children by a Black man but do not what their children to be called Black regardless of their phenotype! Just because a white woman is with a Black man does not mean she’s not a racist! Why would sane Black men want to mate with the oppressor?!

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      • truthangel07 says:

        “Why would sane Black men want to mate with the oppressor?!”

        That’s the shining question.

        A sane Black man would know what’s looking at him and run the hell away.

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      • lc1028 says:

        I wish black men will stop letting black women shame them. I’m a black man (high value), yes and I date white women almost exclusively now. Yes I have a black mother, that in fact has worn dreadlocks for the majority of her life and a black sister. First of all you girls are no different from the pathetic racist white males on Stormfront, bitching about black men taking all their white princesses. White women and black men are thing and have been for a long time now, I don’t know what it is, whether it’s the crazy sexual chemistry, extreme contrast in black masculinity to white femininity. But heres the thing, genetics dictate we find and fuck the furthest members of the human species away from our own to propagate children with stronger genetics. And given that black men tend to dominate most sports we enter, generally have higher than average testosterone levels and real or perceived image for big penises, who are you to stop them or discourage them? Black men and white women are thing, always have been. The brutal truth of it is this, white women and the white female phenotype is the idealized standard of beauty, whether or not you consider me a “victim” of this mentality, I’m not going to convince myself to like something else because it will make a few “sistahs” feel happy.

        Also most black men who date white women cannot possibly have self-hatred. A woman by nature is dominated by the male, she takes upon the culture, whims and even memes of her mate. Black women on the other hand, are the ones who are always bloviating about “good hair this, good hair that,” “oh I’m going to have light skin baby… yadda ya.” So when I see black women with white men, which is rare, because most black women find white men to be less than masculine alternative but nevertheless good mating choice for genes and provider instincts. You will almost never see a white man and black woman subjecting themselves to black culture or norms, you will find that this black woman has modulated herself to her new role as probably the 3rd choice of her white man after white and Asian women. However, when you see the most normal interracial couple (BM/WW) the woman has succumbed to black culture, she herself an agent of change and somehow it’s taboo, you know why it’s still taboo? The act of a black man taking a white woman by nature is an act of conquest, I am an agent of conquest, and am doing all of you a favor (not intentionally either) by furthering “the cause.” I will not apologize, nor should any other black man. Tyrone is on the money. Black men are the new idealized masculine phenotype and white women are the traditional and still idealized feminine phenotype. Put two and two together and voila! Lot’s of bitter people on both sides.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Let me tell you something, right here and now, I will allow your comments to be posted (I stopped reading after the 3rd paragraph) because I want the other bloggers to take a shot.

        Thank you for exposing your ignorance.

        And I’ll just close with this: with all of your allegiance to “White Supremacy” and the white male infused female beauty standard, when the day comes, and your Snow White wakes up one morning and realizes that’s she’s in bed with a Nigger; you better hope and pray that bitch doesn’t holler rape!

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    • Amanda Richter says:

      Be jealous all you want, trash. White trash??? Youre trash for thinking people cant fall in love with a person because of their character instead of their skin color. I have mixed kids what are you going to do about it? My kids dad is from a island and every island black man says they cant even relate.to black Americans because you are an embarrassment to black people all over the world.

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      • popacroc says:

        HWell amanda, I think you need to understand a few facts. First of all, ww/bm relationships are a joke for three reasons: #1 many black men abandon there mixed children. Hence why you have so many mulattoes having mixed loyalties. #2 for the most part, most white women who get with black men are trashy, ugly, and on drugs(black man himself might be a drugdealer) #3 many (not all) of these white women are rejects from those sweet white connections that they probaly once had. So all in all this is’nt about bashing ww/bm relationships this is about telling the truth and exposing this shit for what it really is! You wanna get pissed, I can give a two shits. But thats typical of white people anyway to get all upset about the truth coming from a black man.
        ”When a fish sees an easy meal, it fails to see the hook and line”. Stupid niggas you better getting your fucking head right!

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