Why Black Women Prefer To Date and Marry Black Men…

I'm so lucky...

Does this really need to be explained?

Some would think so…well, for those who are wondering, here’s why the majority of Black women prefer Black men: Black men are the only equals for Black women. A Black man was the first man. In the image of God…man was created. He was the first father. Black men are what their fathers are. All women want to marry that which mirrors them.

In my wildest dreams, I never thought there would be day when any Black person would have to qualify their reason as to why they do what should come natural to all, to love one another, fall in love, and marry.

The state of condition in this country is such that white people are now concerned that we are marrying each other–and not them. Huh? Thus, the arrogant white controlled media has seemingly created an attitude in the public’s mind that for some reason, it is necessary to divide and conquer Black love, by insulting and hurting us with perceptions and racist preconceptions of ourselves, thus, creating a false image of our community.

There have been books, talk shows, movies, magazines, and even reality shows that try to instigate some type of war between Black men and women. But why? Why is our community being targeted by such bigotry and ignorance?  Better yet, why are so many Black men and women spreading the misinformation and responding with counterintuitive actions against their own people.  Who’s reality are you living?

I’ve thought about this and I can only say that the most powerful image I have are of Black men and women in love, who stand with one another, and are a dynamic force for our people.  There’s just something very powerful about a Black man and woman who love each other, and walk boldly together. The vibes one gets from them is just beyond words.  It’s a beautiful thing.  Black love is the truest energy and it impacts everything around it.

Let me be even more clear, Black men in love with strong Black women scare the hell out of racist white males and weak white women. They hate Black people but out of some type of pathological sickness, take pleasure in exploiting the negative in our community, at any length, the most passionate being, to attack us where we’re most vulnerable to them: many Black people having terrible self-hatred and feelings of inferiority and insecurity, to the degree, promoting white supremacy through interracial coupling extends this ethos even more, with the intent to divide us, weaken us, and neutralize all Black nationalist agendas to advance the race as a whole.

This appears to be working in 2014, but not all of us are falling for this psychological tactic.

Black women in particular, are not believing that every Black man on this planet hates them. I for one, have never been ignored by Black men–I get approached almost daily, however, it’s not for attention that I prefer Black men, to me, they just are the most sexy, intelligent, cool, strong, creative, well-built, funniest, clever men I’ve ever encountered. I can’t imagine not being attracted to them. All of my life, I’ve loved Black men. Even when I was a little girl, I just loved to look at them. They made me feel secure, and protected.

“According to Howard University researcher Ivory A. Toldson, 88 percent of married African-American men – of all education and income levels – marry Black women. Most rich and successful Black men do not choose to marry outside of their race: 83 percent of six-figure-earning brothers and 85 percent of college educated African-American men find a Black woman to call his wife, reported Toldson.”

Sources:

http://www.livescience.com/38613-genetic-adam-and-eve-uncovered.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hatshepsut

I grew up in a community where some of the finest Black men and women lived in Chicago. The images I saw were positive. Black men were chasing Black women every single day. All I saw were brothers literally getting into car accidents–breaking their necks as they hollered out of their Cadillac’s, Lincolns, Regal’s, Monte-Carlos with the gansta white walls, at the Foxes, Babes, Brown Sugar, and Sexy Mamas that were coming from every direction. Black love was a good thing.

And when I decided to create this blog, it was done with the intent of promoting this along with definitive values of family and community within our culture.

Honestly, I shake my head at the comments that I’ve witnessed online regarding who we are as a people, but when you become what your enemy wants you to be, you have been completely conquered, and your mind entrapped by a lie.

To be or not to be…Shakespeare posed the question, well for me, Black love is a the most revolutionary act, and this Black woman is leading the cause without apology.

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22 comments on “Why Black Women Prefer To Date and Marry Black Men…

  1. Why one would date interracially is beyond me. What a black man truly sees in a white woman has all been fabricated through the media and the rest of society. That will one day change.

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  2. Reblogged this on Steph's Blog and commented:
    Ah, the arrogance of white supremacist media to have the audacity to tell Black women to date/marry/interact/procreate outside of the community. That’s ahistorical and it’s really about control, bottom line.

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  3. Ah, the arrogance of white supremacist media to have the audacity to tell Black women to date/marry/interact/procreate outside of the community. That’s ahistorical and it’s really about control, bottom line.

    SB

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  4. Tia says:

    they are promoting the IR stuff as a divisive tactic. I always said to myself the white mans last tactic was the white woman. distract him, keep his mind off of what matters, his community, his black children, his health etc. now they are pushing it on sisters. If you are not down the “the swirl” you are non progressive, you’re a bigot, because after all no black man wants you so jump off of that sinking ship. smh this is whats being pushed.

    notice that on the tv shows black women have all but been replaced with much lighter/ biracial women as lead roles, wives. It is rare to see a brown skinned / darker skinned woman in a lead role, romantic interest especially. If the woman in question is black though, her male lead is usually white.

    How many times have you seen white sitcoms with that sort of breakdown. They would never allow it. Mixed race/biracial people as a whole are held up as a standard of black beauty , which I find odd.

    We allow it to happen of course because a lot of us are still so psychologically # @! up excuse my French, not comfortable with who we are, and wanting to fit into the status quo. It’s like a form of Stockholm syndrome.

    It amazes me how black women have held on to their preference for their men, in his original form, for all these centuries in the west. Our men I hate to say it, don’t generally embrace us in our skins, of course many of them do but as a collective, I thin k the closer to a white/ biracial aesthetic the more palatable we are for them. We have held on to our preference and love for our men despite having gone through the same conditioning process they have, the same self hate and images pushed on us. Thank God, but I just wonder why and how that is.

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Black men and women just have to make the CHOICE to change how we are perceived, mainly, in how we treat each other.

      Let me tell you something, Tia.

      White folks know exactly what they are doing. They study us–our behavior, psychology, how we talk, think, everything we do or like to do, and a good hunter studies it’s prey.

      I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: “The genius of White Supremacy was for the slave master to convince the slave to participate in his own extermination”.

      Look around…

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    • Crest says:

      Agree, I think its time to intervene.
      There is barely an black love on TV or any other media. IR promotion has become extreme, erasing black couples/love. And yeah they do choose biracials/mixed race people to represent black people and pretend like they are being diverse. They got rid of black led shows that were in the 90s, no black couples on mainstream TV anymore, its only getting worse.

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  5. Mochasister says:

    That should read “Others need to accept my intraracial dating preferences. ” Damon autocorrect!

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  6. Mochasister says:

    I have been called racist for stating my preference for Black men. If I am supposed to accept someone’s interracial relationship, then one needs to accept my interracial dating preferences. Why is it so hard to believe that not all Black people want to date, mate with ormarry ssomeone who is non Black?! Most human beings in the world tend to marry others who are from their background. Yet when Black people (at least here in the States) attempt to do the same, people tell you to be
    more “open minded”. “Love sees no color.” Yeah, well my love will be a Black man the good Lord willing. This doesn’t mean that I hate non Black men or don’t find other men attractive. God has beauty in all skin tones and ethnicities in spite of what white supremacy says. I just happen to really like chocolate! 😉

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Thank you for your comments–I feel the same.

      I created this topic for sisters who have no fear or shame in telling it like it is–not giving a damn…who likes it or not.

      And why are people concerned all of a sudden who Black people date and marry? It’s bizarre. Just 50 years ago, it was illegal to intermarry, but I guess, white folks know that they are declining in population and mating with us is a way to preserve their genes.

      But honestly, it’s like the Bible says, God will sometimes make your enemies you footstool, and ain’t it grand how those who despised us, now want to BE WITH US.

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      • originalwoman13 says:

        “Just 50 years ago, it was illegal to intermarry, but I guess, white folks know that they are declining in population and mating with us is a way to preserve their genes.”

        And people need to realize that this is the no. 1 driving force behind all of this IR propaganda and stop being stupid with all of this color blind, post-racial bs.

        “God will sometimes make your enemies you footstool, and ain’t it grand how those who despised us, now want to BE WITH US.”

        This is true and some black folks are suspicious as to why these people all of a sudden want to be with us now, but we need to let them go on and decline….whiteness and white supremacy whither away.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Amen.

        The Bible is still relevant.

        Wisdom is priceless.

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  8. “Honestly, I shake my head at the comments that I’ve witnessed online regarding who we are as a people, but when you become what your enemy wants you to be, you have been completely conquered, and your mind entrapped by a lie.

    To be or not to be…Shakespeare posed the question, well for me, Black love is a the most revolutionary act, and this Black woman is leading the cause without apology.”
    Very true words!!

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    • truthangel07 says:

      Hey, K-man.

      How was the movie?

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      • You mean Think Like a Man? It was pretty good. It had a few laughs and some celeb cameos. Singer Ronnie Devoe,Drake and boxer Floyd Mayweather were in it. The first film was better though. This one had TOO much Kevin Hart. He really gets on my nerves.lol I also don’t like the interracial relationship between Gabrielle Union and that white boy. But it was an okay movie I guess.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Haven’t you been noticing the IR theme in our movies of late? It’s getting ridiculous.

        Every moment of the day I wonder when will the moment arise when REAL BROTHERS AND SISTERS speak the damn truth about what we really think about the images we keep seeing about our community.

        Enough is enough.

        And ditto on Kevin Hart. Ice Cube would agree with you.

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      • Yeah it’s every where now. Dramas like Scandal,The Pracrice,Grey’s Anatomy etc.. You can’t escape it. They want us all to embrace the “swirl”. I get so sick of it!!! And hart is am unfunny little midget!lol

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      • truthangel07 says:

        I’m going to start contacting some of these networks and speaking my mind.

        If I’ll write the President and tell him what I think, you know I’m not even playing…

        But anyhoot, have you ever heard of Rahsaan Patterson. I love this brother’s music. Check this one out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RvKlGMjuGoY

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      • Rahsaan! Of course!! That’s a bad brother! Makes beautiful music. Very underrated in my opinion.

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      • truthangel07 says:

        Love his stuff. Cool dude–for sho’. 🙂

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